Hi Sweetdee, I posted a reading request a few days back. I've also seen all of the requests you've received since offering your wonderful services so if you're unable to get to mine then I completely understand. However, if you did in fact respond to my request and it for some reason did not post, let me know as there are others whom posted requests and have received a response. Just in case you were unable to see mine here it is again: my DOB is 8/27/82. I also wanted to know how things will turn out with two others in my life. The first DOB is 9/21/74 and the other is 1/7/75: Thank you so much!! Peace and blessings

Hi sweetdee, thank u in advance for the reading. I would like a reading on myself and two others I am romantically involved with. Can you give me the outlook on both? My dob is 8/27/82. First person 1/7/75. Second person 9/21/74. Again, thank you so much! Hope to hear from you soon.

Thank you to everyone that has responded.  Also, I am so sorry to hear about all the women that had the misfortunat e of engaging in a relationship with a man that is on the down low.  I do think the down low lifestyle is happening more and more and needs to be curbed if not stopped at all.  Since men won't come out with, can anyone give a top five list of things to look out for.  So far I think someone mentioned behavioural changes and dubious internet surfing.  But are there anymore specific things to look out for?  With me, my guy has taken up to hanging out with the "fellas" way more than i'm comfortable with.  Sure, there is always the chance that he may just be having an affair but something in my stomach is saying there is another man.

Again, thank you for sharing your stories.  I truly think it will help and save tons of women from heartache and a potentially deadly disease (HIV)AIDS)

This one is to all the ladies out there: first, how strong do you feel your intuition is? How loud can you hear it? When you do (get an intuitive nudge), how much do you trust it? I ask these questions because how many times have you felt the one you love was cheating on you (keyword: felt)? Finally, how many of you have ever been with a man that has cheated on you with another man? Or was on the "downlow". If so, what were the signs your man exhibited while you were with him and he was on the downlow? I just watched an amazing movie that touched on the whole downlow topic and it fascinated me to no end. I'm intrigued by it. Want to know if its real and if it really happens??

Thank you again MsSunny. So I have an update: my guy emailed me this morning at around 9 am. Totally put a smile on my face :-D. Strange thing happened. Last night I had a dream that felt more like a vision. In my dream I pick up my phone and there's an email from my guy. I vividly saw it. Low and behold, I woke this morning and while thinking about my guy, I get an email from my guy (smile). The surreal part is that the email said exactly what it said in my dream (one word off, lol). In any event, this isn't the first time I've had visions/very strong feelings about something and they've come to fruition.

So Sunny, I know you do readings and that's entirely different than being a psychic, but you did mention earlier that you had a vision of my sister making a move on my guy. Which leads me to believe you do have the gift of discernment. If you could, would you be able to tell me some of the feelings you experience while having these visions? I guess I'm trying to figure out if I have a gift

Talk to you soon!!

MsSunny, thank you so much for that reading. It is exactly what I thought it was. He's upset with me or rather my response. I'm actually partially to blame. I should have never responded via email. My gut instinct was to call him. But since I could feel this was a sensitive moment for him I wanted to write rather than call. In any event, I really hope things workout because just the day before he sent me that email I could feel him and it hit me -- I felt like I was in love with him. I didn't say that in the email because I know that virguys get scared very easily. At this point, I will wait because I do love him and hope that things workout.

With regard to my sister. Its such a sad situation. I actually had it out with her today. I called her out on her childish behaviour. She actually went as far as to have her daughter lie and say she met him yesterday but she I know she didn't. I actually think he's out of town right now. So hopefully she doesn't pull another stunt but we'll see. I'm happy knowing he isn't interested in her :-D!

@rdiana, I've dated my V for a year and about 4 months now. But like I mentioned to you and Sunny earlier he recently asked where we stood (sort of kind of) and I responded but still haven't heard back. So now I'm actually in the "I'm confused by my virguy" pool (ugh...such a frustrating place to be in). Virgos tend to do that. Once you think everything is going great, they switch things up on you. Leave things up in the air so you're forever confused.

With that said, MsSunny, if you're still here, can u please do a quick reading on me and my guy? Like I said earlier, I played my cards right. I was natural, non-clingy, gave space (which I needed as well) and just overall was always consistent and even-keeled with my behaviour. So he asked the where do we stand questions first. I answered as best I could and now he's gone cold. I sense my answer upset him, wasn't the answer he was looking for. After I answered his questions he didn't respond for about an hour so I emailed, asked if maybe I answered incorrectly because I didn't really understand what he was asking. His reponse was a curt "fell asleep". That was the last I heard from him and that was on Monday of this week. Given the nature of his questions and my response, I thought he would have some sort of response to it, but nothing. So at this point I need some insight. His bday is 9/21/74 (initial - D). Mine is 8/27/82 (initial - L). If you need background info give me your email I can correspond off the record. Also, my sister, whom I think has a serious crush on my guy and may be the reason he's gone cold on me. Her initial is B and her bday is 5/18/74.

Thank u soooo much :)!

@rdiana -- How are you, sorry to hear you're confused. I'm actually a virgo dating a virgo and to the contrary of Msunny's comment, my virgo actually just asked last night where we stand, how I feel about him. But, I have to agree with Msunny, I think the clingy, needy woman would drive any man away (especially a virgo). Me and my virgo are very similar in that we need tons of space and a lot of time to think things through. The email I got from him asking what I thought of him and why I wanted him actually scared the crap out of me. To the point where I think I responded rather emotionally to push him away (which I dont think I did, although he hasnt responded yet because I know he;s thinking about the best way to respond). But the point I'm trying to make is that we virgos tend to get very caught up in our thoughts. We play out scenarios in our minds over and over again before we can make a move. Like, for example, I;'m extra cautious so I never like to jump into things head first. So typical communication between me and guy has been like an email or two a week for the past year or so. There is more communication if there is more to talk about. But other than that, we appreciate substance in our communication rather than frequency in communication. Also, another tip for you is to just relax and get busy. Trust me it works. Dont always be the last to respoind. Dont try to be cold and aloof when responding. Just be yourself, and let him have the space and time (as much time as he needs to come back around to you) and you guys will be fine.

Currently. I;m a little on edge because this is the first time in over a year my guy asked where we stand (sort of) and I responded with a heartfelt (i really like you) kind of email and still havent heard back. Its only been a few hours, LOL but still, for a virgo like me it feels like an eternity. But I know how we virgos are and I know he;s really taking in what I wrote. Now whether he feels the same, time can only tell. I'll see what his response says. But until then, all I can do is wait. But again, I truly believe that allowing him his space and freedom to chase me has bought us to the point where me as the female didnt have to ask HIM where we stand. or even have to imply I wanted something more serious. So that feels great, he he.

Hope this helps. I can give more insight if you give more detail about your situation.

take care.

Cancergirlie, first, id like to give my sincerest thanks for having run into you on this forum.  I've literally spent hundreds of dollars on therapy over the past year that doesn't par in comparison to how much you've helped me with your last post.  Two therapists and a year later, you're the only person that seems to understand what I'm going through.  Everything you said, what you've been through and your advice is spot on.

I've felt for a long time now that I need to do is some serious soul searching, yet when the time comes for me to make a move and begin my journey I retreat back to the comfort and familirarity of my relationship with my fiance.  Soul searching might be one of the scariest tasks I've ever been faced with!

I'm going to try my best and make steps (baby steps) toward my goal of putting myself first before its too late.  I'm young (28) and don't want to look back 30 years from now with tons of regrets. Which I can see happening.

So today will be the day I begin my journey. I'm going to take things one step and day at a time. I feel I have no other choice.

With regard to my virguy, he absolutely brings the confidence and the push I need to move forward.  But as of late there have been some bumps in that road.  Unfortunately, there's a third party involved that's been attempting to throw things between me and my virguy off course. That 3rd party is my sister.  She's been trying to seduce him for the longest. She and him (virguy) live in the same town. And she's been dating his  bestfriend for the past 4 yrs.  So she sees my guy way more than I do, almost every other day.  Anyway, I've gotten readings on her and they've all concluded that she has a major crush on him, is trying to seduce him and doesn't want us to work.  I've seen her flirt with him, in my face in fact, on more than one occassion.

I've confronted her about her flirtations and blatant disrespect and it doesn't stop.  She still tells me stories every now and then about things my guy has said to her or things he's said to her guy about her.  I'm never the one to not go to the horses mouth so each time I've confronted him and he always says he doesn't do what she's accusing him of doing or that her potrayl of events are actually way different than how they actually occured.

So here's the bad news, she told her guy last weekend, who later told my guy that I'm now engaged and am going on vacation with my fiance.  Something he had no knowledge of.  So I'm just bummed.  I mean, I felt like he was my out. The person that bought me peace. Now I'm not sure that's even an option.  Has anyone ever been in a situation like this? A situation where a realtive or really close friend is attempting to sabatoge your relationship? I need advice on how I should handle this.

Its so frustrating because I know this is going to take me and virguy a million steps back.  I also have not heard from him since the last email I sent him. Ughhh!! So frustrating!

What's aslo interesting is the sense of peace our virguys provide us. Wonder what that's about??