Hi Meera17! Thanks for replying to me. Yes being a Libra is a tough sign. I'm the only one that's not human nor animal. I'm metal. Metal isn't supposed to have feelings like I have for other signs. I basically get along with everyone, or at least try to. I'm supposed to be the scales and be judgemental, but I look at the world thru rose colored glasses. I look for the good in everyone. I'm always trying to help people and was told I should be a social worker because of my compassion. My scales are always tipping around all over the place. I don't dwell on a subject that I may have exploded about. Once I've had my say, it's over with. (Using my husband for an instance) I never go to bed mad, have problems and beat myself up mentally if someone disagrees with me on a subject because I back down and tell them they're right. I get along great with Sag. My mom was a Sag. She spoke her mind, and all 5 of us kids listened or else. She could have a hot temper when someone crossed her line. But she also had a great sense of humor. I can understand you being unable to sit still. It's not only the fire, but the lion in you. It was nice to correspond with you. Hope we talk again, keep those fires burning and the lion roaming. You wouldn't be you and I see a nice person. Thanks.
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Hi! My name is "Onthetable". I'm a Libra, born on the cusp of Scorpio. I have a hard time with horoscopes because I always fall in the Scorpio category, when I am a true Libra. I always have the tendancy to look at the world thru "rose colored glasses". I look for the good in people and stay from the bad. My rising sign is Capricorn and my moon is in Aries. So I really have a hard time trying to keep my scales in balance. I'm pretty laid back and lots of times I keep things bottled up inside until the steam won't let me control myself anymore, then I blow up, but after that, things are over. I don't dwell on it and go off on some other adventure. I'm new to this sight and looking forward to possibly making some friends, or reading their views. Thanks.
evianna: you already know what to do. This guy knows you will take whatever he hands out to you. It's a controlling, abusive relationship. C'mon girl, wise up. He's not the only fish in the sea. I've been married 3 times. 15 yrs to the 1st, 13 to the 2nd and now going on 6 yrs with the current one. I've been thru what you're going thru. You need to get your self-esteem back and don't let the idiot back into your life! I raised 2 kids by myself, put myself thru College so I could better support myself & kids. It wasn't easy, but I refused to have a man in my life just for *** and let myself be used by them. The one I'm married to now is getting ready to see the door. He weighs over 300#. I keep trying to keep him on a healthy diet, but when I go to bed, he raids the kitchen. I don't need a man in my life to support me or to keep me company. I'm 65 sweetheart, have congestive heart failure, sleep apnea and in th 3rd stage of kidney failure. He never even consumated our marriage. I was willing to work thru that because of his health problems, but he' not doing anything to help it. I'm tired of bickering all the time about his eating habits, plus he showers like every 3 months. He can't perform, sleeps in his chair at night when we're supposed to be watching TV, then when I go to bed, he's wide awake! Go figure! He just wants someone around so he won't feel lonely. I'm not afraid of being on my own even with my health problems. Somehow, someway there's always a solution. He's also controlling but in a gentle sort of way. I've wasted my entire life on 3 men who took advantage of my heart. Well, now my head is working and as soon as I can find an apt within my budget, I'm out of here! If I can do it, so can you. And I won't look back or boohoo either. It will feel so good to cook what I want, when I want and not have to answer to anyone except to me.You can do it, you just don't have the courage. so either accept the situation, or dump him. Counseling doesn't work. Tried it, been there, done that. No help at all.