i have been married to a gemini man for over 6 years and we live in sepasrate places. he comes to my house more often than he used to but now he feels he needs his "space" again. i reacted and now he says he wants to end the relationship. he told me to my face he didnt love me anymore and that he knows ill be happier without him. what i dont get is how someone could be that close with someone and out of the blue say something like that. i cryed alot last nite. then this morning when he called i asked him about where we stood and said we are split arent we? and his answer was "i can change my mind cant i? i think this is pure bullshit myself.