The answer is so simple to those who are not involved. The second lady described her relationship as toxic so is yours Betinni, you sound like such a lovely person, and you are selling yourself short. LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF and dont allow anyone to take away your confidence and self esteem as I KNOW ONLY TO WELL. People do to you that which you allow them to he is not the only one with issues. You owe it to your children to be the best mum you can be or they will become affected too. Betenni this is my best advice and I send it to you with LOVE AND NO ONE SAID IT WOULD BE EASY,.................BUT IT WILL GET BETTER.

Hi, just read your post and loved your optisimn as i am sure it has been a tough time for you, but you sound so strong and sincere i wish you every good thing. I have just joined this forum recently and have never done anything like this before but have a real interest in all this stuff. You touched my heart.

Hi, I am a leo woman 49 today I am very fond of a aqua male who is 38 we were friends and on his request were going to move further, then he bottled out. He followes me and seems to be where ever i am, but refuses to speak to me he just ignores me. I am so hurat and confused and do not understand this behaviour or him we have KNOWN each other for three years, and are very attracted to each other, he has had a painful childhood and relationship, HELP