So my cancer man randomly brought up what happened 4 years ago about how I hurt him. He did the same thing so I called him out . I regretted it instantly. I’ve tried to explain that I just want to understand what is going through his mind so that we can talk about it n move forward together . I was given the silent treatment for a week and he texted me that he is engaging with me because I pushed things .we’ve been going on and off for years . Should I give up already

@ToriDori @ScorpVirgo Thank you for giving me all these insights about a cancer men .I could see the similarities in them . I’m dealing with a cancer man myself for 5 years .

Been together for one and a half years , best time of my life . On n off later , i am aware that it is super toxic but I’m still unable to let him go

I was given a silent treatment because he said was being pushy ( because I was trying to understand what was in his mind ) . It seemed like he is still holding a grudge on things I did bfr we broke up. He told me that he won’t be engaging with me because I was pushy. It was almost 3 weeks now and he is still upset.

I don’t know how much time I should give it . I’m getting tired

So my cancer man randomly brought up what happened 4 years ago about how I hurt him. He did the same thing so I called him out . I regretted it instantly. I’ve tried to explain that I just want to understand what is going through his mind so that we can talk about it n move forward together . I was given the silent treatment for a week and he texted me that he is engaging with me because I pushed things .we’ve been going on and off for years . Should I give up already