As Scorpio male and veteran once engaged to a Gem Woman under relatively same conditions I found things wonderful at first and then nightmarish after a while. The military world, combat or not gives people clarity of the REAL world we THOUGHT we already had. As soldiers, we come from a world of discipline and order in to a world of chaos and people who show us soldiers that we've only upgraded peoples compfort level. No matter where you go, the environment you last spent any real time is going to leave the largest imprint on one's psyche. If we've been in combat, it gets more profound. Gem women have to lay the actual ground rules out for the good of both. Life is short, both of you have to realize commitment totally and honestly.
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RE: Gemini and Scorpio's--Why am I scared?
RE: Need help with Scorpio Man!!!
As an "older" Scorpio male with somehow an abundance of Leo female relationships I say this from both observation, reading and experience. We Scorpio males are an entity unto ourselves and can't help it. The most profound reason is we're REALLY "in tune" with GOD's workings on the planet although we spend most of our lives searching for the reason beliving WE ourselves have the answer or will find the answer in our own way instead of letting anybody else tell us otherwise. Very few male scorpio's started life easy and it will show in how we deal with the personal challenges you can see. To us scorpios, every move we make, think, do or question is a "life or death final answer that becomes our personal makeup" tho we rarely tell anybody that. If we know you love us then we solidly believe you are there for us as we REALLY do have other things (priorities) keeping us from having any real time to cheat. We get mad because we're serious about everything we do so unless you have absolute proof at the same time don't accuse us, we will quit you and after we're done with whatever we are doing we will start over and we will feel the hurt of losing or former partner. In other words we are SERIOUS people about everything and can't help it. All women must understand if you love us then just do YOUR thing separately and invite us out once in a while: billards, plays, movies. We'll be GLAD to pay for it. Act like you don't care even if you do. Stand your ground if you know you are right and never concede. It seems like the old "ignore them it'll make them want you more" scenario. LIFE IS SHORT! KEEP IT REAL WITH US AND YOURSELF. THEN MOVE YOURSELF FOREWARD. If he is a child of GOD, he wouldn't be putting you through the changes and it seems he's being spiritually tested. And failing. That's what his pastor is there for. Just don't be afraid to tell him so. Time to do you Leo Woman instead of so much for others. You'll be fine. ;]