The background story is this- I dated my Gemini off and on for 6 months, then he gave in to his emotions and said he loved me. I easily gave in to his dazzling charms and twinkling eyes and we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He moved in right away and we lived together for a year. I was an immature Libra though and didn't give him his space. I nagged him like his mother. It was downhill from there until one day he said he wasn't "in-love" with me anymore and I had to move out. He was hard to let go but I left and gave him his space. He was the love of my life and I swore I'd never be with anyone else after him.
A few months after the break-up he would call me periodically and invite me over. We would watch a movie or chit chat for a bit. One time he called and before hanging up he accidentally said "I love you" but I ignored it and laughed it off because I still believed in what he told me months ago.."I don't love you anymore".
Years have past and he still pops in and out of my life. I love him unconditionally so I welcome his presence, his random texts and invites to come over and pick up something I had left at the apartment. I never talked about the relationship, I hid my emotions because I thought he would break them again. I thought for sure he would verbalize his interest in getting back together, but he didn't. In hindsight I do recall he would always hug me goodbye. and during one visit he tried to cuddle me on the couch but I pushed him away thinking he was just joking. I had no self esteem.
So currently- He met with me and told me he was moving out of state. I was devastated. Then one of his friends said he had met another girl and was moving because of her. I thought I was going to die, I always thought we would be together again, I just had to wait patiently ( I've waited for 3 years at this point).
So I asked if we could meet one last time. We met at a bar and I tried to be as airy and fun as possible. I wanted to show him that I was a changed person. He commented, Why are you single?? So I guess he was intrigued a bit? I then mustard up the nerve to finally bring up the big question on my mind... "why are you leaving for this other girl? I thought we would get back together" ... His answer was... "It's just something I have to do." He was tired of the city. And then he said I didn't have to worry because what he has with this new girl isn't the same as what we had. He totally mind f**ked me! Then all of a sudden he had to leave the bar. I gave him a hug outside and told him I loved him. He replied "I love you too. Maybe some day we'll be together." Then he told me to find him on Facebook. I haven't heard from him since.
Should I just move on and save myself the pain and misery of waiting? or should I keep hope alive? Will my Gemini come back?