Posts made by nolapisces

Wow! I too am a Pieces - I've been married 6 years to a Gemini, we dated 5 years before that, and on and off the 5 years before that. It was a LOT of work to get him to admit his feelings for me, to be able to tell me he loves me. Jayseville's comments are spot on! My Gemini pulls away, comes back and it IS a cycle. He gets all lovey at the weirdest times. We rarely have sex any more - which may just be a factor of married life. I know he loves me and loves me as best as he can, but after all this time, I don't know if it's enough for me. I'm tired of having to be the one inititating the intimacy - physical and emotional. His hobbies are all such that it's just him, we don't have any hobbies we share. We both like to cook, but he gets annoyed if I hang out in the kitchen when he's cooking. I've been branching out, trying to find people with similar interested as me to do stuff with and he's OK with that. If I get mad at him, give him the cold shoulder, that's when he gets attentive. I hate to tell you Cancermen, it's the truth of the matter. We Pieces need a lot of attention and affection and you aren't going to get that from a Gemini in any regularity. I recently reread all my journals since the day we met and I'm blow away but how much effort I had to put into the relationship. He was always "confused" and unsure about his feelings. Cancermen, they like a challenge- a chase - you are going to have to let him pursue you or think he's pursuing you and is "in control". I love my husband very much but I'm not sure this can last. I get so frustrated. I need more than he can offer.