Exactly!!! I come up with little sayings often here's my latest. "To love is a curse, to be loved is a blessing". Simple and to the point. My family thinks I'm over negative and prideful. Isn't it strange that humans can find an element, illusion or maybe real, of comfort in the knowledge of another's similar pain? I'm glad that you shared that moonchild, I'm glad everyone is sharing. The more people who share on here the more likely I am to meet someone in the real world that feels the same way I do and with the same depth. Maybe somebody should start a cancer singles group lol herd us all in one place so as to bypass our introverted and solitary natures. Imagine a room full of cancers, lol.

Thanks yall for your words, especially you stranger2. That phone counciler thing sounds pretty cool. I might actually look into that. Iv heard of the 12 step aa thing. My personal approach to overcoming my issues is learning how to separate my fear from my desire. People make so many choices nowadays based on fear that true happiness is often never realized. I used to smoke alot of weed to counter-balance my intense negativety but not anymore though. I came up with a formula. Experience produces though, thought produces belief, and how and what you believe is what your actions are based on and action produces experience and the cycle begins again. The trick is to identify and avoid negative experience and also generate self perpetuating positive experience. However, apart from all kinds of cool sounding sayings and fluffy retoric, sometimes the best thing (for me atleast) is to just hear a simple, "I know how you feel" story. To be understood in a world so devoid of understanding. This is my way of love, to give the simplest and rarest gift I can imagine, relation through understanding.

Careful about sag. A female sag broke my heart. I'm often attracted to sign that are not compatible with mine. Sometimes I wish I could have been an Aries or a Sag. I personally think our society is a really bad environment for cancer but at the same time I believe cancer has the greatest capacity to fix our messed up society. Our societys trademark quality is apathy. Everybody is on some kind of substance, legal and illegal, that either alters or suppresses natrual emotion.

Hello, my rising and sun sign is cancer and my moon sign is scorpio. I have an extremely emotionaly unstable gemini for a mother who's fears lead her to destroying her family. She left my dad after 23 years of being married. Back before I knew anything about astrology I, after holding out for a long time, gave my heart to a sag, worst mistake of my life. I have no friends that I can count on or feel close to and I have no relationship with anyone in my immediately family, I'm the oldest of 5. I have for several years had many strong suicidal tendencys, the strongest after my heart was broken, but none ever take me seriously. I fear I will never succeed in life and never find a girl that can feel and think as deeply as I do. I believe I'm empathic and I'm very much so skilled and interested in all things philosophical and psychological. I would love someday to be a councillor of some kind and also a physical trainer. I desperately long to speak to someone that truly understands how I feel and can offer some bit of thoughtful and meaningful encouragement. I'm so sick of hearing predictable and emotionless things like, "everything will be ok someday", or "there's plenty of fish in the sea".