Posts made by newbee2

newbee2,

give me some insight on this issue..: It is the beginning of all creativity and a desire to accomplish new goals. Anything can happen and the opportunities are just waiting to be taken advantage of.

I just got those vibes from him and subconsciously changed career?? Yes.

why can`t i let him go? because you feel that a once-close union is starting to fragment and break down.

When will I experience this strong connection with someone new? when the pain and hurt you have endured will have not gone without purpose.

I`m getting 6 of swords quite often when asking about him: there is some sadness in terms of him you will need to leave behind you but you know that this trip will do you a world of good!

and 4 of cups often comes up too: in this sense this indicates the need to look deep into your Self to discover the answers you seek.

newbee,

just by reading this, if you understand it, it has already happened. There is nothing else to do.

Hi Hans,

This is the first time I`m writing you,hope you can give me some insight on this issue..

The story: I met a guy three years ago whom I can`t forget. The problem is

we never even had a relationship or a meaningful conversation.(power struggles, ego things).

Since than (3 years)we moved countries and not in thouch at all.

Now ,there is no single day passes without me thinking of him, in fact I do belive I`m receiving his

energies,vibes. The guy is in my head all the time. He is in a relationship since last year, but I

only found that out a couple of months ago..

Last year I badly wanted to change career for some reason, so took courses for it and now I found out, that his gfriend

is in that career as well, like when he started dating her I just got those vibes from him and subconsciously changed career??Crazy

Or several times happened that I`m thinking on going to places or buying things and few week later

I see photos of him in that place I was thinking of or with the same staff I wanted to buy! crazy

Not to mention the mornings when I wake up and see his face stucked inside my forehead(sorry I can`t

express myself about how he appears in my head, but thats how it is, hes just there!)

So Im aware that hes moved on, that he is several thousands miles away, that even if we would be in

touch we would have visa issues not to mention the current economic situation, yet my mind cannot

let him go.

Hans why can`t i let him go?

When will I experience this strong connection with someone new?

ps. I`m getting 6 of swords quite often when asking about him, oak tarot got a good description about

that card which really fits into my situation. and 4 of cups often comes up too)

Thanking you in advance,

newbee

Is it that difficult to read this spread?

Ok ,so a reader suggested me to get in touch with him and I`m gonna get good news...

But I feel that he`s having a girlfriend and maybe a baby on the way...

Any suggestions please? (The cards are above.)

Thanks

newbee2

I did a lovers tarot and these are my cards regarding a possible re-union and relationship in another country.

Present situation: Knight of Wands, My World:Temperance, His World: Ace of cups,

Nature of Issues: 9 of Wands, Obstacles: Queen of Wands, Lesson and Signs: the Empress,

My Hopes and Fears:Knight of Swords, HIs Hopes and Fears: 2 of Cups, Challenges: 6 of Swords,

Outcome: the Chariot

We haven`t been in touch for quite a long time now, so that Q of Wands could be a current girlfriend of his.

What do you think?

Thank You,

Newbee2

What I see is that a "healing" is needed here. However, usually healing means closing up a wound and giving it time to mend. His Ace of Cups and 2 of Cups does indeed suggest that he is involved with someone else. You as Temperance and the nature of the issue as the 9 of Wands is the indication of the healing that is needed on your part. This is self-healing - a healing of the interior rather than the exterior. The Queen of Wands is a strong, capable woman who knows what she wants and believes in her own ability. She does not give her power away to anyone - she knows her worth - and does not allow anyone to step on or over her or take advantage of her. This is your obstacle - to become the positive aspect of the Queen of Wands. The shadow side of this Queen shows up as low self-esteem and giving your power away to someone else as you do not believe in your ability to take care of yourself or in your inherent beauty. Your Knight of Wands in the present as well as the Empress as the Lesson indicates to me that in the future you need to remember that the physical attraction is not all there is to a relationship - it fades - and time should be given to allow a true connection to develop. The 6 of Swords as a challenge means that your challenge is to "sail away" from this situation, move on to better things. The Chariot as an outcome is you being at the helm again - moving forward in your life with the reigns in your hands. It also represents emotional balance.

Hey newbee2,

I will take shot and I am sure others will jump in also...

1. Present situation - the Knight of Wands - You are wanting to be chased by this Knight of Wands which represents a fiery individual

2. My world - Temperance - You are holding your own in this matter, you want to believe in a reunion, and are keeping a balance between optimism and realism, identified by the Temperance energy.

3. His World - Ace of Cups - Love is top most in his world right now, and he has his sights set on securing this love at all costs

4. Nature of Issues - Nine of Wands - Shows some battles from the past between you and him. Whatever it was, created the pain and yet it also created a shared identity in the relationship around that experience. My sense is that you both still feel a connection because you weathered the storm spiritually. Although now you are apart physically.

5. Obstacles - Queen of Wands - This ties back to that "present situation" which is the Knight of Wands seeking your heart. The obstacle in this case is you as the Queen over the matter. I want to say that the reunion rests mostly in your hands at this point.

6. Lesson and Signs - The Empress - Nurturing atmosphere was what you wanted, and it did not happen in the relationship. You have learned a great lesson and are ready to apply yourself towards a new love start one way or the other. The lesson of the Empress will be felt in all of your relationships throughout the rest of your life.

7. My hopes and Fears - Knight of Swords - Again, the Knight. You want so much to feel that heavenly feeling again, the way he looked at you, and what you felt with him close. It is your dream and you would give anything to be there again. You fear that he is off in another world, unapproachable, however this is only a feeling and not the reality of his heart.

8. His hopes and fears - Two of Cups - He also more than anything desires true love and is open to that from any direction. The word I am getting is that the breakup was not about you, or anything you did wrong. It had mostly to do with him, he was not ready... now he is ready to step into something meaningful and tender.

9. Challenges - Six of Swords - The ocean of distance that seems to separate you can seem overwhelming. The good news is that is all easily changed and the crossing can come at any time. You are connected to him in some way that is not impacted by the fact that he is somewhere else. His heart-spirit still linger around you and you reach out to him even now. And he is reaching out to you.

10. Outcome - the Chariot - Well, when it hits, it will hit hard and fast. The both of you, together again, and wow! What a dust storm in your wake. Everyone had best stay out of your way because any relationship that weathered what yours did, and then to see a fresh new start? Well, there is a reason for those cupid arrows. They make you start running!

And I see you running to him, I would totally reach out any way you can, as his heart is still connected to you (otherwise you would not even be posing the question).

Good luck, I agree with your other reader... get in touch and yes... good news!

Love and peace and more love...

astra