newbee2,

give me some insight on this issue..: It is the beginning of all creativity and a desire to accomplish new goals. Anything can happen and the opportunities are just waiting to be taken advantage of.

I just got those vibes from him and subconsciously changed career?? Yes.

why can`t i let him go? because you feel that a once-close union is starting to fragment and break down.

When will I experience this strong connection with someone new? when the pain and hurt you have endured will have not gone without purpose.

I`m getting 6 of swords quite often when asking about him: there is some sadness in terms of him you will need to leave behind you but you know that this trip will do you a world of good!

and 4 of cups often comes up too: in this sense this indicates the need to look deep into your Self to discover the answers you seek.

newbee,

just by reading this, if you understand it, it has already happened. There is nothing else to do.

Hi Hans,

This is the first time I`m writing you,hope you can give me some insight on this issue..

The story: I met a guy three years ago whom I can`t forget. The problem is

we never even had a relationship or a meaningful conversation.(power struggles, ego things).

Since than (3 years)we moved countries and not in thouch at all.

Now ,there is no single day passes without me thinking of him, in fact I do belive I`m receiving his

energies,vibes. The guy is in my head all the time. He is in a relationship since last year, but I

only found that out a couple of months ago..

Last year I badly wanted to change career for some reason, so took courses for it and now I found out, that his gfriend

is in that career as well, like when he started dating her I just got those vibes from him and subconsciously changed career??Crazy

Or several times happened that I`m thinking on going to places or buying things and few week later

I see photos of him in that place I was thinking of or with the same staff I wanted to buy! crazy

Not to mention the mornings when I wake up and see his face stucked inside my forehead(sorry I can`t

express myself about how he appears in my head, but thats how it is, hes just there!)

So Im aware that hes moved on, that he is several thousands miles away, that even if we would be in

touch we would have visa issues not to mention the current economic situation, yet my mind cannot

let him go.

Hans why can`t i let him go?

When will I experience this strong connection with someone new?

ps. I`m getting 6 of swords quite often when asking about him, oak tarot got a good description about

that card which really fits into my situation. and 4 of cups often comes up too)

Thanking you in advance,

newbee