Please, I really need some insight.
Help please! Some unflattering half truths, truths and untruths during a probationary period. One is belittleing, bullying and unrespectful attitudes towards me, the other is a tattle-tale. Trying to learn as we go and with the treatment I get I am walking on eggshells and making some mistakes. They cover each other's mistakes but make an issue of mine as I am learning. Nothing said to me in 2 months. Then I state I don't like the way the one treats me and then I am told that if "I don't improve," I won't be kept on. Any insights would be helpful. I like the work, and really want to get along. I don't create waves and feel intimidated. I defer to the first one as to not make her frustrated enough to go off on me and that is being percieved as not knowing what to do next. In my defense I let her know what I am doing so she doesn't go off on me. If I don't she questions me or finds something wrong in what I am doing. Very critical.
Thanks for any insight. I am a Sag as well as the bully. I am 11/28/53 , I have a Libra rising and a virgo moon. She is 12/17/ - around 45 years old.
Hi leftHanded Girl,
Page of cups: sweet, gentle and romantic, supportive, emotions grow stronger through senses.
Nine of Coins: His dream girl, what he has worked hard towards - to be able to offer his all he has worked for to his dream girl. This card represents hardwork that makes it look like it was easy to the outside world. He might think of you as such, a hardworker, that has it all!
Hope this helps, Nanette
Hi, What I want to let you know about this reading is that the first 5 cards show a change in your relationship or household, not necessarily a death. There are a lot of reversals here and that tells me that there will be a role reversal coming, due to financial, medical or family reasons. The moon generally relates to things hidden coming to the surface - from the unconscious to the conscious - I equate that with the aha moment or a light bulb turning on in your head! this is reversed so I would take that as not wanting to acknowledge it or you are too busy to recognize some factor going on. It would help to know where the moon is in your chart. I would also guess that it could be a role reversal dealing with a mother situation. I would venture to say the queen and king are you and your husband which are also reversed, which to me says that maybe you and your husband are changing and growing together at the same pace. I also have another take that seems to want to be expressed: This is that the moon is a Mother that will need to be taken care of in some way or possibly moves in or your family with her, and therefore, a change in the household brings changes for you and your husband.
I just can't get the mother (moon) aspect out of my mind with this. The reading is Mother (moon) Queen (wife) and King (husband)! Could one of your Mother's be hiding an illness that will effect you within the next 10 years, or be capable of doing so, until it gets too bad that you are left making decisions? Those first 3 cards are really heavy!
The 7 of Pentacles suggest an evaluation of your marriage and since it is not reversed says that the two of you are content with the marriage, but have not yet reaped all the benefits of the marriage. One or both of you may feel that you have put in the time and work and would like to experience all the rewards NOW, but know that it will come when it is due. Its kind of like being an expectant mother - excited about having the baby, but knowing if it comes to soon it's survival will be at risk.
Now we come to the High Priestess Who is represented by the Moon! She is also reversed. Do you and your Mother or Mother in law get along? as both the Moon and The High Priestess are reversed it is superficial, moody, manipulative and controlling. So the changes I see are either within the maternal sides within the family or perhaps a difference in opinions regarding maternal concerns, whether it be in how you interact with your own children or Mothers. As you can see I am really stuck on the Mother thing!
How do you handle these types of situations? The 6 of Pentacles suggest giving and recieving a charity of self - being pleasant in the midst of rudness, kind in the midst of unkindness, etc... that will award you good karma, and possibly a better relationship (maybe by helping out a parent - even though...) and the 6 of cups means to follow your gut! If you get that Oh NO! feeling you know it and follow it and vice/versa.
I can see where other people might see that there are secrets (moon) between you (queen) and your husband (king) which will bring you to a reevaluation of your marriage, but please keep in mind that all three of those cards are reversed! No secrets between you here, just an inability to see something coming at you, but you will both ride it out together and as much as you would like to experience the rewards right away, the benefits or rewards will come later, but they will come. The High Priestess reversed shows someone trying to cause some grief for your marriage but you deal with it with grace and charity and follow your gut!
Hope this helps, and with so much going on here, I hope I have touched on some possiblities that you can begin to rectify or clarify.
Love & Blessings, Nanette
Hi, Just wanted to know how you have been, and if you ever got your website or blog running. I don't remember which one you were going to do. Anyways, I was thinking about you, so I thought I would drop you a line. I tried to find a way to PM you, but couldn't.
WOW! that was my impression of this reading. Thank you for the opportunity to help you interpret this reading.
First of all, lets note that there are 2 coin cards (earthly matters) and 2 wand cards (action; spirtuality) and then there are 3 major arcana cards.
1. What he feels for me: Ten of Coins - a treasure to cherish, valuables, fruit of all labor, In my deck the treasure chest is open symbolizing readiness to recieve and share.
2.What he thinks of me: Chariot - Victory, a person who has self assurance and knows herself and where she is going in life.
3. What is keeping us apart: Judgement - Inaction on eithers part. (maybe his judgement is that he may not be your equal or viceversa - out of his league.
Best approach to take to this situation: Seven of wands - Let him know you are approachable and be competitive for his attentions. Now is not the time to sit on your laurels!
What is hidden about him: Nine of coins - He has worked hard to achieve who he is and what he has. It might look like success has come to him easily, but it took a lot of work on his part.
What type of relationship would he want with me: Strength - one that is not controlling but kept together by a knowing force of love. To deal with ever comes up with courage, grace, hope and compassion. Passion, sensuality and physicality(Sex!). To keep untamed behaviors at bay in public and animalistic in the sac!
Most likely outcome between us: Ace of wands - This card represents the start of fire and says to take action now, don't worry about the details. this also represents the getting lucky card for a man. This is the beginning spark that starts the fire.
There is a deep attraction between the two of you and to start getting to know each other, which will lead to all the questions you have for one another gets answered. Also, in getting to know each other, you really will know each other on a level not known to any others. At least that is my take on this card.
Let me know what you think of this reading please. Did it help, or do you still have questions.
Your sister's wheel of fortune year starts on her birthday this year and ends on her birthday next year, you are already in yours. The self control issues are the strength issues carried forward from your last year, your Strength year. This is where you need to hone your strength, have the fortitude to step back from a situation before you react. You know when you are ready to blow, at that precise moment, catch yourself and rethink your reaction, instead of loosing control, take a few deep breaths, and say, I am too upset, mad, anxious, or whatever the emotion, to respond to this now. When I cool down, and figure out why this pushes my buttons, we will discuss the issue. Write it down! figure out what it is that makes your react that way. Do you feel someone is taking your authority or power from you? Do you feel belittled? Do you feel unappreciated? Whatever it is, you can then sit down and discuss it rationally. You can start by saying When you do.... It makes me feel..... then I go off. You will probably find out through this discussion that it wasn't there intent to make you feel small, or unappreciated or whatever it is. I think once you get your emotions under control, you will be more confident and happy, you will have learned the secret of knowing how to be gracious under pressure. Remember it is not only you experiencing the confrontation. There is another person involved, and you will be wise enough to know that how you react contributes to and teaches a response from them. If your children see you handle stress in an explosive way, that is what you are teaching them, and how they will react back. As far as your dream of going to a 3rd world country to help, as long as you put blocks in your way, dreams won't be realized. Its when the blocks are removed that we can move forward and towards our goals and dreams. It depends on what family obligations you have. Do you have children? a Husband? Would they be willing to pick up stakes and move with you? Do you feel that your sisters just wouldn't survive without? You need to ask yourself if you can't do it now, would this be something you can make plans for to move towards when the kids are grown? What is holding you back, what can you do about it, and is it something that you can look forward to at a later time.
Hope this helps,
Your scorpion sister: Your sister feels beaten down, and being reminded that she isn't what she used to be keeps her down. This is her strength year and she is supposed to be working on fortiude and courage, but she doesn't know it. This period in her life is a life lesson for her. (Every year is a life lesson), you either take it on, or wonder why me! She needs to face her fears so she can realize she is only afraid of failing, but failing is just another way of telling us that we weren't true to ourselves,and what we know what we can do, and the Universe does too and wants us to be our best authentic selves and always do our best. You can encourage her by asking her advice about things you know she is good at. Build her self esteem by making her a player and acknowledging where her strength lies. If she is good at budgeting, ask her to look at your budget and see where you can save money, if she is good at managing, ask her how to get your house to run smoother, Or how she would go about an issue that you are dealing with. Make her become the one that is useful and needed. The wheel of fortune comes into play on her birthday this year. The lesson here is to ride out the changes in our lives. To stay balanced on the inside (the hub of the wheel) while the outside is spinning around. She may need to seek counseling to find her balance if her depression does not subside. Obviously, living with a depressed spouse can be depressing. She might need to get away for maybe a weekend to figure out what she wants from life. A breather might do her good. Or maybe you two could do a girls day out. Even if its just you and your sisters going for a walk, you don't need to talk, just feel the love between all of you when you are togetheror doing something that she enjoys doing to bring back the feeling of how good it feels to do something that makes her feel good! Sometimes just a gentle reminder of that will maker her want that feeling again and she will do more. If she is resistant to doing anything, then sometimes you just have to let go and let her come to you when she is ready. I know it is hard to stand by and watch, but this might be a lesson to you. You can't fix everything, but you can be there to catch her when she falls.
Thank you so much! Your comment made my day!
First of all the bad boy nephew of yours - I don't know what state you live in, but in ours there is a child study that can be obtained through the school itself. They will observe and document his behavior, learning abilities, etc. From that the school will advise the parents. It may involve something as simple as going to the dr.s and putting him on meds, or it can go as deep as phychologica or phsychiatric care or meds and behavior modification through a therapist. If the school does not offer a child study, have her take him for an evaluation. Start with his Dr. and he will advise. You are giving her the right advice, hang in there and finish her courses, it will well be worth her time and she will realize that, but right now, she can't see the forest for the trees! She needs to finish this. Once she gets her son under control, I don't feel she will be as stressed. I think like I said, she feels she is not tending her children because she is not there. She hears all the negative about her son, and it makes her feel she should be home more. She is repeating the issues because she is hoping something you say might offer her a solution and hasn't found the right one. She is searching for answers but doesn't know where to look. All she has to do is look within. Have her make a list of what she wants in life, no holds barred. If she could be or do anything what would it be? If it is a stay at home mom, Insurance work would be great, some companies let you work from home! or she could find an area that is of interest to her to work from home. But again, once her son is put on the right track, with everyone working together for his betterment, then a lot of her angst will go away.
I am not that knowledgeable, and still refer to books! I know the basics there is so much I don't know and couldn't hold a decent in depth conversation. I just got the tip of the iceberg, and like I said a lot of books! By the way someone **** one of my words in my last post to you! I didn't think in that context it would be inappropriate. So sorry to the Admin of this board.
Danielle, (I hope you don't mind my calling you by name).
The 4th house is the house of home, your home life past present and future. Your childhood, parents, siblings and ancestors. Gemini is the sign of thought and communication on a personal level. So with Gemini in your 4th house you put a lot of thought into what kind of home you have and provide. Gemini is also a sign of intellect. So you make sure the decisions regarding your home and homelife are made with your head in tow and not just your heart. The moon in Gemini is where your imagination and creativity come into play - poetry, tarot interpretations, Home decor, etc. It is also condusive to an active mind. You react on a mental plane and are apt to get perceptive impressions from the world and because your sun is a water sign, you tend to have a higher emotional nature about you. So you use your head and your heart. Not bad huh!
The hermit - Crone is what that card represents to me, because I am a woman and the Crone represents a wise old woman who knows how to tap into the knowledge of the Universe, and is self sufficient. Of course I am not that woman yet, but I am always trying to get there. I hope I never stop learning. I view the Hierophant as the teacher card. He represents a mentor or intuitive guidance.
The 5th house is the house of creativity and sex (pleasure), Children, art, leisure anything that gives pleasure. So you like to entertain or be entertained. This is the area where you "shine." So I guess you will make an awsome mother if you ever choose to do so. However in relationships your pride may get in the way.
Ascendant in Aquarius means this is how the world sees you and your outward projection of yourself. So you are friendly, honest, witty, lively, and use words to create. Read about Aquarians and that is what you present yourself to be to the outside world.
Does this help?
Yes, I see that as your hidden factor card, the moon was a part of that depression. The good thing about that was you learned to deal with it through your poetry, an outlet so to speak that kept you from going to the dark side of the moon. (Your intuition took over) I think there might have been a part of yourself you wanted to keep hidden, and that possibly was your interest in the tarot and wicca, and the universe. You didn't want to appear to be "out there." I think as you get older, as the teacher card, the moon will illuminate your gifts. You will probably or have already start to have dreams that seem to become reality or maybe an answer to a question that you haven't asked yet, but reveals itself and reminds you of that dream. You will finally trust your gift. I think you might have had or have had trouble trusting that the gift you have is real.
Do you know where your moon is in your birth chart?
My moon is in Virgo in the 12th house! imagine that! That's the house of sorrows and selfundoing in the sign of domesticity! I am married for the 3rd time. I picked the wrong man 2 times in a row! I am now happily married and guess to who? A VIRGO! In astrology if you are in a relationship where you partners sun sign is your moon sign or vise versa, it is a very good match, and so we are! I am a sagittarius. I hope this helps to "illuminate" you! Let me know what you think.
Danielle, I forgot to mention that the round Mother Peace deck is different to work with, not only is it round, but it has different meanings depending on how the card is turned right side, left side, reversed and of course upright. Lots of fun, lots of aspects. Thanks for your heartfelt words, I know they are at peace. We always have what we need, and a little of what we want (although the want is a little scarce right now), thanks to the Universe, and God, Yes I believe he is the creator and the universe is his divine creation.
You find your teacher card by what card is left out. Ex: I am a 21 (the world) personality, which breaks down to 2+1=3 The Empress for my soul. Now 12 also adds up to 3 So My hidden factor card up until adulthood is the Hanged One (Man) which becomes your teacher card in adult card. I had a hard time as a child and teen making decisions about anything and was happy to have my parents, friends, siblings, talk me into one or help me make one. I couldn't do it on my own, That was the Hanged One showing his place in my life, I needed to learn to make decisions and learn how to make them without procrastinating or plain not just making one and taking the consequences of not. So now in my adult life as a teacher card, It shows me which areas to take my time to think about before making a decision or if It is one I can make an out and out decision right then and there. Its like a time out card. Time out to think things through, not making rash decisions or being forced to make a decision to quickly. I hope this makes sense to you.
Your Cancerian sister is in her Wheel of Fortune year, which means the wheel of fate is turning and if she holds onto the middle of the wheel, she will balance all that is spinning around her.
You are also in your Wheel of Fortune year, hold on tight, change is a comin'!
.Ok, your Cancerian Sister: Personality is the Sun, Soul is The Wheel of Fortune, and a bonus card of the 1 Magician. She has great potential and is not living up to it, which is where it seems as if she is drifting. She can rely on her wit and luck to keep going, but is lacking the persistence to see things through. Her attitude keeps her from reaching her potential. She feels she has too much on her plate as it is, overwhelmed might be a better word, and not enough time for herself to even think. She needs to delegate some of the household responsiblitlies. Are the Children old enough to help out with household chores - even light ones, can she barter/exchange chores/babysitting with friends to get out and find a job, or take classes, or just plain think? She feels that if she isn't 100% there in the home and with her children, she isn't fullfilling her obligations to them,while she is quite comfortable with the status quo, she is yearning for a chance to prove herself with her peers/friends in the workplace/home. I don't think she wants to start at an entry level either, which is where she might need to start. She needs to envision what she wants so she can work towards it. Can she take some classes to prepare for what she wants? She needs social interaction with her peers/friends and respect for what she is trying to do - It is vital to her sense of worth.
Your Scorpion Sister: Has the Moon for her personality card, and the Crone for her soul card.
She has set up barriers to protect herself, yet doesn't realize that those same barriers are locking her in. She needs to take them down and not be afraid to move forward. She keeps getting the wrong jobs, because she is always finding fault with herself. As she projects her fear (not being able or capable to move forward or progress in her job), she keeps realizing her fear... not being able to perform on the job. She has to stop being so hard on herself. When she finds herself in the midst of stress or depression, she needs to realize that it is part of a larger cycle of events and is usually the last dispair of her rational mind before new possiblitlies breakthrough. Her soul card The Crone is a symbol for a wise woman experienced in the ways of the world. She is also a woman who needs to be alone to go deep inside herself for the answers. If she takes a long hard look at what she has accomplished, what she knows, what she wants to learn and what she wants to produce and put out into the World, Universe she will probably be amazed at herself! She is coming to an end in her Strength year where her lessons were to find fortitude and courage in her abilities. She will be starting her Crone year on her birthday this year which is her sould card, she will feel more confident, she will feel more like herself.
Now, for you The piscean sister, avast in emotions: You are The Fool personality and The emperor soul. RIght now you are acting with what your soul already knows and that is the Emperor. The Father figure. Even though you are the younger sister, you have a good foundation and use your head. You are positive and assertive, but can be forceful. You have a paradoxal nature as you can be childlike (the fool) and the parent figure (the Emperor). So to me this says that you know when to have fun and you know when its time to get down to business. Right now you feel like the father to your sisters, giving them strong shoulders to lean on and a good head to work things out with. They both feel you are what is holding them together and up! Keep encouraging them, continue to give them a hand up, but not a handout. They need to learn that you are there supportively, to lean on but not to bail them out. They need to realize their potential and be forced to make changes out of necessity. They no longer should have the financial cushion you have provided them. Even though you all might have thought that it was a help, It was keeping them from doing what they had to do. If their depression is bad enough where they or one of them cannot function, then please steer them towards counseling.
Hope this helps.
Hi Universal, Yes I do collect them, and sadly play with most of them for a while, and then put them away unless I feel, like you said, the wow! Then they become part of my user friendly decks that I use for readings. When I get that wow, it usually means I don't have to take the time to study them, its like they talk right to me. I use the Spiral Tarot and Tarot of the Spirit quite a bit. I also use MotherPeace for female issues, as it completely relates to the female existence. (I also use it with men who need to get in touch with their feminine sides, or for those men who think its unmanly to feel). But those are the ones I reach for depending on who I am reading for or if the question is based on a spiritual aspect or an earthly one. Sometimes people don't understand why things are happening to them over and over again. I explain to them that it is the universe forcing them to face the situation over and over until the lesson is learned. You can usually tell the lesson by what your personality , soul or teacher cards are and looking up the minor arcana of those numbers. for those I use the Spirit of the Tarot. For questions about earthly matters such as jobs, finances, relationships, Horoscope spreads (reading for each month of the year, in a certain house etc... I use the Spiral Tarot.. I understand about the economy! We live in a suburb of Detroit. My husbands hours were cut drastically, and I quit my job about 6 years ago to take care of my inlaws, on top of raising 3 of my grandchildren.(I am in my 50's) I couldn't work and do all of that. My inlaws, sadly passed within 2 years of each other. I too am looking for work, even part-time. I hope this works out well for you. You seem to have the gift. Could be the Universe's way of telling you this is what you are supposed to be doing!
I always view the tower as a breakdown or breakthrough,
Breakdown of oldways, foundations, structures in life.
Breakthrough of new thoughts, ideas like a light bulb went on in your head and you get it!
The truth gets out from under the deception and breaks free to new understanding.
Page of cups represents a new love interest and are ready to take a chance. Someone who wants to be of service to others and is emotionally dependent. So this card says that you are ready to participate on all levels in a relationship or job, not to be taken lightly and you become emotionally dependent in the relationship. You want to do for this person to show how much you care, also relates to a job, you want to do a good job and care about the job you do. You are willing to give your all to this relationship. This can also relate to a new job, becoming emotionally dependent on how the job defines you.
The Sun = Enlightenment, clarity, understanding. as with the tower, things come to light, success, the center to which all is drawn too! (the center of attention) The light is shining on you! Good luck and rewards for work well done.
This seems to be a reading about a new relationship/job and emotional investment of some kind. It could be a person, or a new job that you really love, something that you are ready to give your all to. But first you must build a new foundation for it. You cannot build this on a foundation meant for someone or something else. You need a clean slate. Do not start this without letting the truth out or else it will fall and crumble because it was not built securely. Once you do this, you will be well recieved, respected and admired. You will understand how important building on trust, honesty and integrity can be in your life. It will be a whole new perspective for you.
Hope this helps.