Please, I really need some insight.
Help please! Some unflattering half truths, truths and untruths during a probationary period. One is belittleing, bullying and unrespectful attitudes towards me, the other is a tattle-tale. Trying to learn as we go and with the treatment I get I am walking on eggshells and making some mistakes. They cover each other's mistakes but make an issue of mine as I am learning. Nothing said to me in 2 months. Then I state I don't like the way the one treats me and then I am told that if "I don't improve," I won't be kept on. Any insights would be helpful. I like the work, and really want to get along. I don't create waves and feel intimidated. I defer to the first one as to not make her frustrated enough to go off on me and that is being percieved as not knowing what to do next. In my defense I let her know what I am doing so she doesn't go off on me. If I don't she questions me or finds something wrong in what I am doing. Very critical.
Thanks for any insight. I am a Sag as well as the bully. I am 11/28/53 , I have a Libra rising and a virgo moon. She is 12/17/ - around 45 years old.
Hi leftHanded Girl,
Page of cups: sweet, gentle and romantic, supportive, emotions grow stronger through senses.
Nine of Coins: His dream girl, what he has worked hard towards - to be able to offer his all he has worked for to his dream girl. This card represents hardwork that makes it look like it was easy to the outside world. He might think of you as such, a hardworker, that has it all!
Hope this helps, Nanette
Hi, What I want to let you know about this reading is that the first 5 cards show a change in your relationship or household, not necessarily a death. There are a lot of reversals here and that tells me that there will be a role reversal coming, due to financial, medical or family reasons. The moon generally relates to things hidden coming to the surface - from the unconscious to the conscious - I equate that with the aha moment or a light bulb turning on in your head! this is reversed so I would take that as not wanting to acknowledge it or you are too busy to recognize some factor going on. It would help to know where the moon is in your chart. I would also guess that it could be a role reversal dealing with a mother situation. I would venture to say the queen and king are you and your husband which are also reversed, which to me says that maybe you and your husband are changing and growing together at the same pace. I also have another take that seems to want to be expressed: This is that the moon is a Mother that will need to be taken care of in some way or possibly moves in or your family with her, and therefore, a change in the household brings changes for you and your husband.
I just can't get the mother (moon) aspect out of my mind with this. The reading is Mother (moon) Queen (wife) and King (husband)! Could one of your Mother's be hiding an illness that will effect you within the next 10 years, or be capable of doing so, until it gets too bad that you are left making decisions? Those first 3 cards are really heavy!
The 7 of Pentacles suggest an evaluation of your marriage and since it is not reversed says that the two of you are content with the marriage, but have not yet reaped all the benefits of the marriage. One or both of you may feel that you have put in the time and work and would like to experience all the rewards NOW, but know that it will come when it is due. Its kind of like being an expectant mother - excited about having the baby, but knowing if it comes to soon it's survival will be at risk.
Now we come to the High Priestess Who is represented by the Moon! She is also reversed. Do you and your Mother or Mother in law get along? as both the Moon and The High Priestess are reversed it is superficial, moody, manipulative and controlling. So the changes I see are either within the maternal sides within the family or perhaps a difference in opinions regarding maternal concerns, whether it be in how you interact with your own children or Mothers. As you can see I am really stuck on the Mother thing!
How do you handle these types of situations? The 6 of Pentacles suggest giving and recieving a charity of self - being pleasant in the midst of rudness, kind in the midst of unkindness, etc... that will award you good karma, and possibly a better relationship (maybe by helping out a parent - even though...) and the 6 of cups means to follow your gut! If you get that Oh NO! feeling you know it and follow it and vice/versa.
I can see where other people might see that there are secrets (moon) between you (queen) and your husband (king) which will bring you to a reevaluation of your marriage, but please keep in mind that all three of those cards are reversed! No secrets between you here, just an inability to see something coming at you, but you will both ride it out together and as much as you would like to experience the rewards right away, the benefits or rewards will come later, but they will come. The High Priestess reversed shows someone trying to cause some grief for your marriage but you deal with it with grace and charity and follow your gut!
Hope this helps, and with so much going on here, I hope I have touched on some possiblities that you can begin to rectify or clarify.
Love & Blessings, Nanette
Hi, Just wanted to know how you have been, and if you ever got your website or blog running. I don't remember which one you were going to do. Anyways, I was thinking about you, so I thought I would drop you a line. I tried to find a way to PM you, but couldn't.
WOW! that was my impression of this reading. Thank you for the opportunity to help you interpret this reading.
First of all, lets note that there are 2 coin cards (earthly matters) and 2 wand cards (action; spirtuality) and then there are 3 major arcana cards.
1. What he feels for me: Ten of Coins - a treasure to cherish, valuables, fruit of all labor, In my deck the treasure chest is open symbolizing readiness to recieve and share.
2.What he thinks of me: Chariot - Victory, a person who has self assurance and knows herself and where she is going in life.
3. What is keeping us apart: Judgement - Inaction on eithers part. (maybe his judgement is that he may not be your equal or viceversa - out of his league.
Best approach to take to this situation: Seven of wands - Let him know you are approachable and be competitive for his attentions. Now is not the time to sit on your laurels!
What is hidden about him: Nine of coins - He has worked hard to achieve who he is and what he has. It might look like success has come to him easily, but it took a lot of work on his part.
What type of relationship would he want with me: Strength - one that is not controlling but kept together by a knowing force of love. To deal with ever comes up with courage, grace, hope and compassion. Passion, sensuality and physicality(Sex!). To keep untamed behaviors at bay in public and animalistic in the sac!
Most likely outcome between us: Ace of wands - This card represents the start of fire and says to take action now, don't worry about the details. this also represents the getting lucky card for a man. This is the beginning spark that starts the fire.
There is a deep attraction between the two of you and to start getting to know each other, which will lead to all the questions you have for one another gets answered. Also, in getting to know each other, you really will know each other on a level not known to any others. At least that is my take on this card.
Let me know what you think of this reading please. Did it help, or do you still have questions.
Your sister's wheel of fortune year starts on her birthday this year and ends on her birthday next year, you are already in yours. The self control issues are the strength issues carried forward from your last year, your Strength year. This is where you need to hone your strength, have the fortitude to step back from a situation before you react. You know when you are ready to blow, at that precise moment, catch yourself and rethink your reaction, instead of loosing control, take a few deep breaths, and say, I am too upset, mad, anxious, or whatever the emotion, to respond to this now. When I cool down, and figure out why this pushes my buttons, we will discuss the issue. Write it down! figure out what it is that makes your react that way. Do you feel someone is taking your authority or power from you? Do you feel belittled? Do you feel unappreciated? Whatever it is, you can then sit down and discuss it rationally. You can start by saying When you do.... It makes me feel..... then I go off. You will probably find out through this discussion that it wasn't there intent to make you feel small, or unappreciated or whatever it is. I think once you get your emotions under control, you will be more confident and happy, you will have learned the secret of knowing how to be gracious under pressure. Remember it is not only you experiencing the confrontation. There is another person involved, and you will be wise enough to know that how you react contributes to and teaches a response from them. If your children see you handle stress in an explosive way, that is what you are teaching them, and how they will react back. As far as your dream of going to a 3rd world country to help, as long as you put blocks in your way, dreams won't be realized. Its when the blocks are removed that we can move forward and towards our goals and dreams. It depends on what family obligations you have. Do you have children? a Husband? Would they be willing to pick up stakes and move with you? Do you feel that your sisters just wouldn't survive without? You need to ask yourself if you can't do it now, would this be something you can make plans for to move towards when the kids are grown? What is holding you back, what can you do about it, and is it something that you can look forward to at a later time.
Hope this helps,
Your scorpion sister: Your sister feels beaten down, and being reminded that she isn't what she used to be keeps her down. This is her strength year and she is supposed to be working on fortiude and courage, but she doesn't know it. This period in her life is a life lesson for her. (Every year is a life lesson), you either take it on, or wonder why me! She needs to face her fears so she can realize she is only afraid of failing, but failing is just another way of telling us that we weren't true to ourselves,and what we know what we can do, and the Universe does too and wants us to be our best authentic selves and always do our best. You can encourage her by asking her advice about things you know she is good at. Build her self esteem by making her a player and acknowledging where her strength lies. If she is good at budgeting, ask her to look at your budget and see where you can save money, if she is good at managing, ask her how to get your house to run smoother, Or how she would go about an issue that you are dealing with. Make her become the one that is useful and needed. The wheel of fortune comes into play on her birthday this year. The lesson here is to ride out the changes in our lives. To stay balanced on the inside (the hub of the wheel) while the outside is spinning around. She may need to seek counseling to find her balance if her depression does not subside. Obviously, living with a depressed spouse can be depressing. She might need to get away for maybe a weekend to figure out what she wants from life. A breather might do her good. Or maybe you two could do a girls day out. Even if its just you and your sisters going for a walk, you don't need to talk, just feel the love between all of you when you are togetheror doing something that she enjoys doing to bring back the feeling of how good it feels to do something that makes her feel good! Sometimes just a gentle reminder of that will maker her want that feeling again and she will do more. If she is resistant to doing anything, then sometimes you just have to let go and let her come to you when she is ready. I know it is hard to stand by and watch, but this might be a lesson to you. You can't fix everything, but you can be there to catch her when she falls.
Thank you so much! Your comment made my day!
First of all the bad boy nephew of yours - I don't know what state you live in, but in ours there is a child study that can be obtained through the school itself. They will observe and document his behavior, learning abilities, etc. From that the school will advise the parents. It may involve something as simple as going to the dr.s and putting him on meds, or it can go as deep as phychologica or phsychiatric care or meds and behavior modification through a therapist. If the school does not offer a child study, have her take him for an evaluation. Start with his Dr. and he will advise. You are giving her the right advice, hang in there and finish her courses, it will well be worth her time and she will realize that, but right now, she can't see the forest for the trees! She needs to finish this. Once she gets her son under control, I don't feel she will be as stressed. I think like I said, she feels she is not tending her children because she is not there. She hears all the negative about her son, and it makes her feel she should be home more. She is repeating the issues because she is hoping something you say might offer her a solution and hasn't found the right one. She is searching for answers but doesn't know where to look. All she has to do is look within. Have her make a list of what she wants in life, no holds barred. If she could be or do anything what would it be? If it is a stay at home mom, Insurance work would be great, some companies let you work from home! or she could find an area that is of interest to her to work from home. But again, once her son is put on the right track, with everyone working together for his betterment, then a lot of her angst will go away.