So sorry to hear of your lost, GoldnGoddness. You have a strong spirit and it may be a blessing in disguise. You surley don't deserve to be treated that way. Your better without him. You seem to be a burst of sunshine.. If he can't see that it's his lost not yours. I've been with my first Pisces guy for 5 months and at first he was a little shy but opened up pretty quick. After 2 months we became close exclusive, then a month later he told me he loved me. We cuddle alot and talk about are dreams and goals. When my guy is feeling down depending on the nature he will come over and share talk with me ask my advise, there have been times when he totaly shut down and didn't talk at all. When he goes tru that I just send him a simple text thinking of you and your in my prayers. I give him his space and he always come back. We are both learning from eachother. I am a gemini but at times I feel like iam so many different signs, I help him with the reality of the world. and he helps me slow down and enjoy my dreams and fantasy. I wish you the best.. have a wonderful Summer..
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RE: All Things Pisces
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RE: Can someone tell me what they see w/ My Pisces Ex- is it over for good
I meet a Pisces guy Dec 2 2009. My birth date 5-22-74 his is 3-9-88. I know he his much younger than me and at first it was my biggest issue. He didn't have a problem with the age differance but we both admitt it was our first time dating an older woman and youger man. We did simple yet romantic outings, walks along the beach, dinner by the water, shooting pool, watching movies. After 2 months we became closer, we spent valentines weekend together and I got a lil overwhelmed.. I never spent that much time with a guy since my divorce 6 years ago. I was happy yet scared at the same time. I told Pisces guy we needed a break and he was hurt. We took a week apart and I apologized if I hurt him and he understood. Since then we talked everyday, and a month later he told me he loved me... I was shocked.. the L word!!! I knew he cared because when I was sick he came over and took care of me that night. I showed my appreciation with kindness and support when he needed it. Back & foot rubs I would cater to his needs when we spent time alone. I wrote poetry for him and read it out loud. I told him I loved him a month after he expressed it to me. It seemed natural and I was comfortable. I expressed that my way of loving is by action.. I may not say it all the time but my actions show for itself. I told him I've been hurt b4 and this is so new to me. He is the first guy since my divorce I said and showed love to. I also admitt that out of the 3 other guys I dated in the 6 years he was the most sweetest, and compassionate of them all. He would come over and cook, cut my grass wash my car and I have fallen hard over the guy. My b-day was 5-22, 2 days b4 that he expressed that when we are together I am his safe haven and he can excape from reality and be himself. he sleeps better, he shares his deepest secrets and dreams with me. He got a phone call from a customer while we were resting in bed and he said that his feelings were hurt, I tried not to be noisy then he responded I just laid down and only have slept for an hour.. What customer needs to know all that personal info??? he than said if you want your car looked at and or detailed come by the shop this afternoon and I'll you later.. I felt a dark cloud over my bed as if this customer is more than that. I asked who was that on the phone he said a customer, and his feelings were hurt because they made a comment b4 about why should they get their car detailed at his shop?? WTH!! what ever.. so, my birthday has passed I never get a call, he didn't show up for the bar b que, and it's been 5 days since we talked. How can someone say they love you and your a safe haven and treat you like this.. I'm hurt but I also know that what I felt he felt too. I wonder if I scared him with my own intuiton about that phone call?? I've cried and prayed for his safety because I try to look at all sides of a situation, mybe he got hurt, arrested, maybe he is cheating?? who knows... so I collected his belongings that was left at my house, put them all in a bag and took it down to his job, with the poem it wrote him, and also a wish you happiness letter. I didn't want to speak ill of him, and go off like MF you 4 got my b-day FU.. no... I wrote I hope you are ok and safe but I don't think this is going to work.. I thanked him for showing me how to love again although Im hurt from not communicating which is very important to me.. I wished him the best.. I left the bag on the door, no one was at the shop. I hope I didn't jump to conclutions, and I truly hope is he well. I do miss him but something inside of me said to let go before you get hurt so that's what I did.. Please Junemoon26 can you do a reading for me.. I sometimes feel that I am mulitple signs. I get so emotional, like at times when we would be together I could feel his pain, and how stressed out he is and I would break down and cry.. with other people too. Thank you so much.. sorry for this long post.. Hey Sandra...
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RE: All Things Pisces
Been dating a Pisces guy for almost 5 months. He is very affectionate, kind and protective. He is 14 years yonger than me and at first I had an issue with the age differance. Now, the age differance does not bother me at all. Actually, since my divorce 5 years ago, I've dated men my age early 30's a Cancer, and a Sag and the Cancer had emotional issues, the Sag was a user.. He is more mature than all the men and he is only 22. I've been told that I am a cusp baby ( Taurus - Gemini ) and that Pisces and Gemini are not very compatible. I believe we both have a very strong spiritual connection. When I'm hurting or need him he always seems to call or be there. We both respect eachother space and freedom. He has shared deep feelings and emotions with me and has revealed that at times he feels ensecure around me. He told me he loves me and that caught me off guard. Pices men are very charming, I just hope that he truly loves me.. not in love with the thought or fantasy of love? Does that make any sense? His actions shows he is very genuine, maybe I'm not ready to be in love just yet. Love for me is loving with my all.. not fantasy but reality. We shall see, only time will tell. Thank you...
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RE: Is my horoscope really mine?
I agree, I have alot of simularities of being a Gemini yet, I can be very emotional and very sensitive at times. They say Gemini's are the life of the party. I'm not really a party person I only feel most comfortable with family and friends. I don't care to be around a whole lot of strangers especialy when drinking is involved. But when I am with people I trust I do let my hair down, dance and joke around. I also have a very strong intuitive spirit. Sometimes I can think of a person that I miss and in minutes they are calling me. I am so sensative that my daughter jokes about it. If Iam watching a sad movie, or she gives me a card she looks at me and say's Mom are going to cry?? I also like being by myself. I enjoy being home it's like having a peace of mind. I can get so caught up in everyone's issues, or struggles and helping others that I neglect myself in the process. That's when I retreat. I rest, write in my journal and fantasize about things and places I've always wanted to go and do. So funny, I guess it all depends on how other plantes where aligned when we are born and also what type of childhood we had. I was told that I was a cusp baby?? Gemini and Taurus? Thanks for starting this post, I've always qestioned my own horoscope too. Sometimes I feel, think and believe that I have a little of all the horoscopes inside me... Spooky
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RE: Older Gemini woman, Younger Pisces Male. Please Help!!
Wears dark color clothes, name brand is not important to him. 5'6 1/2 about 150lbs slender body type with simi broad sholders, he is dark like Michael Vick the football player. They have a lot of facial smilularities. Big smile but is more shy out in public, but will hold my hand and wrap his arms around my waist when we are walking together. Respectful and humble to people especialy his elders. He walks soft, not heavy, he got a swagg lean when he walks but not a whole lot. Clean cut, but can look messy and have dirt under fingernails due to his work. Has 1 ear ring his left ear. His birth mark is on his left arm and it's shape kinda like a cloud puff. I too have a simular mark but on my inner left calf. Hope this helps.
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RE: Older Gemini woman, Younger Pisces Male. Please Help!!
kppresley, Than you for your response, here is a little info on both me and him.
Mine 5-22-74 born in Kahuku Hawaii @ 2:36 pm
His 3-6-88 born in Atlanta Georgia dont know the time
I have never gotten a reading, this is the first time I've dated a Pisces and the age difference does not bother me as much anymore. I can tell he his very sensitive and his very compassionate. Thank you for taking time out to read and reply. Look forward to knowing our moon sign and astrology insite. So excited!!! Thank you again..
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RE: Older Gemini woman, Younger Pisces Male. Please Help!!
Leonessa, so the last couple days I've been calling him the way you said. Sure, enough he called me early this morning while I was at work. I didn't know if I should answer the phone or let him suffer more for not responding to my calls? I answered his call and glad I did. He has been licking his wounds like you said and admitt that he was hurt when I said let's take a break. Along with family and work issues he said he has been out of his element and not himself. Stressed and after a week of not talking to me he said he couldn't take it no more... I told him that I meant no harm when I said let's take a break and we both agreed that we both were feeling so much emoitions that we both were scared to express them. He is coming over tonite to fix me dinner and of course we are going to talk. I can tell he's been sick he sounded all stuffy:( May poor Fish ( LOL ) Thank you Leonessa you were so right!! I called him from my heart and he heard me. Only time will tell what are future holds... I will keep u udated.. Have a great day!!!
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RE: Older Gemini woman, Younger Pisces Male. Please Help!!
That's what tripped me out. He called and text me everyday. The sweetest things he would do and say. He was at work and Smokey Robinson song " Crusin " came on, that's the ring tone people hears when they call me. He called my phone saying Babe your song is on just had to call you because the song reminds me of you.. how sweet!! I can say that out of the 5 years I've been divorced my Pisces is much mature than most 30 + yr old men I've met and dated. He said he was only in 1 real relationship back in Atlanta, that's where he is from. I've met is brother and a few associates at his job. I did go by his 1st job on Sunday and he was not there. He sales and details car so it was strange for him not to be working and it was a nice warm day. I checked out the web and his name did show up the time he said he did get stopped by Police in Renton Wa. Although the web did not have any case info / docket info for any Municipal Court Dates with his name. I checked the jail roster and he is not in custody. My Pisces does not have a FB or Myspace so there wont be no emailing. If I did hurt him I wonder why he laughed and joked about it, as if it was nothing? I guess I'am the opposite, if my lover told me maybe we need a break I would question what type of break do you mean and is this long term or temparary?? I guess we all are different and unique in are own way. I will be patient and hope we talk soon. It's been a week today
Thank you Leonessa for all your insite, encouragement and time to read and respond to my Post. Have a blessed day
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RE: Older Gemini woman, Younger Pisces Male. Please Help!!
Leonessa,
That's so sweet and uplifting.. There were times when I thought of him and we were calling and texting eacother at the same time " How weird " I have alot of work to do within myself.. I am a Gemini was told that I'm a cusp baby with Taurus?. I am sharp with my words at times, but will cry while looking at a sad commerical. I'm a mess.. My daughter jokes all the time and if I'm reading a card or watching drama or love on tv she say's Mom, please don't cry LOL.. By nature I'm very kind, forgiving, and nutruing. I didn't want to overwhelm him with to much, because I know that a man takes pride in being strong and working things out on his own. I just didn't expect not to hear from him for this long.. Since we've met only a day, maybe 2 is that longest it has been when we dont talk. So I will pray 4 his safety and well being. Since 2/16 until today I have called 2x left messages and text 2x as well. Not much I can do but call him from my heart now. I will give you an update soon I hope. Thank you, Sincerely
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RE: Older Gemini woman, Younger Pisces Male. Please Help!!
TheCaptain: PS There is so much guilt and anxiety coming off your post. Love is about feeling good. Where's this guilt coming from?
I didn't want to type a novel with all the fun I am having.. We have shared & done things together for the first time ever. He brings out the childlike spirit out of me:) I'm not worried about the age now only the first month. He has an old soul that I truly appreciate, we have such a connection I felt that it was only natrual for me to b concern with the silence.. Never thought it was life or death.. When u get used to communicating and then Bam!! silence, a person could only wonder what might have happend?? I did. Communication is what I am all about. It is the foundation in most relationships. It was, not only his tenderness, but his intellect that makes me hunger for more.. I will Enjoy this moment for whatever it is and what it may become. All and all I hope he is safe and well and that we connect soon via phone, text even in r dreams:) Thank
TheCaptian.. You have a wonderful day.. I will try not to worry;-)