As a Virgo, and not particularly hellbent on Astrology or an ardent follower, I have to admit that I follow all of the above traits and most all known Virgo aspects, almost to a tee. It's uncanny. Will sometimes read a horoscope at the END of the day with the sign blocked off and sure can tell after the fact which one is Virgo and sychronistically occured that day.
There are no coincedences. Admittedly I am a clean FREAK, home, office, car. I straighten pictures practically with a ruler (have never actually USED a ruler, so cut me some slack here and am additionally a control f*&%k to a fault. I've rationalized the former two as follows: A hotel room clean life is control out of chaos. I can't control what happens out there in the world (The Universe takes care of that karmically) but I CAN control my living environments.
And in regards to being controlling, no one else seems to be up for the job, so I take over. If you want something done, give it to a busy person. So I am the herder, organizer, event planner, the one who makes the phone calls, there just seems to be a lot of passive action going on elsewhere. Get busy, take the reins. If you're not the lead dog, the view ain't ever going to change. Me bad? I sure hope so!