I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 32 YEARS, AND THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME. MINE WAS SEX ONCE A YEAR IF I WAS LUCKY..... WHAT I WAS GOING THROUGH WAS WHAT I THOUGHT WAS NORMAL. BUT IT IS NOT... ! YOU ARE TRYING YOUR BEST ON YOUR PART BUT ON HIS, HE AINT PICKING UP ON IT. WELL HE REALLY IS, HE HAS CHOISEN NOT TO. I THINK YOUR BEST OPTION (BECAUSE OF MINE OWN EXPERENCE) COME RIGHT OUT AND ASK HIM "WHY" BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. LIKE AN AFFAIR. MY HUSBAND REFUSED TO TALK ABOUT HIS FEELINGS, HE IS A TRUCKER, SO I WENT ON ONE OF HIS TRIPS WITH HIM.. THERE WAS NO WAY HE COULD AVOID THE "ISSUE"!! WE FOUGHT THE FIRST 300 MILES.!! NOW WE FOUND OUT THAT IN THAT 32 YEARS, WE ASSUMED ALOT! SO WE GOT DOWN AND DIRTY AND WE AIRED OUT "EVERYTHING"!! HONESTY CAN DO WONDERFUL THINGS..NOW THERE IS A CHANGE, WE ARE LIKE TEENS IN LOVE AGAIN. BUT IF I WOULD HAVE WAITED ANY LONGER, I MIGHT HAVE HAD A HUSBAND WHO CHEATED ON ME. YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF, WHAT IS THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN?! THAN YOU CAN ONLY GO UP FROM THERE! YOU JUST HAVE TO HIKE UP YOU PANTS, TAKE A BREATH AND DO IT.. BUT BRACE YOURSELF.. AND EXCEPT EVERYTHING HE TELLS YOU. THOSE ARE HIS FEELINGS, JUST REMEMBER YOU GET YOUR SAY IN EVERYTHING TOO.. REMEMBER YOU HAVE 27 YEARS INVESTED IN THIS MARRAGE. YOU DON'T JUST THROUGH IT AWAY. TRY WRITING EACH OF YOUR FEELINGS DOWN ON PAPER, IT MAY BE EASIER. MY HUSBAND IS GOING TO GO TO COUNCLING WHEN HE GETS BACK. I BELIEVE THAT EVERY ONE WITH A SERIOUS PROBLEM SHOULD. HIS I THINK WAS JUST A MIDLIFE CRISIS, BUT IF IT IS TOO LATE.. WAIT.. GIVE HIM SOME TIME, AND DON'T SIT AROUND AND STEW OVER IT, GO OUT WITH FRIENDS, LET HIM SEE YOU HAVING FUN. IF HE DON'T COME AROUND TO TALKING ABOUT IT. DITCH HIM! WHEN MY HUSBAND MOVED OUT, WELL LUCKIELY HE FOUND OUT WHAT I REALLY MEANT TO HIM AND HE WAS TRUCKING THE THE SOUTH FOR A MONTH. HE WOULD BRAKE DOWN AND CRY THINKING HE SCREWED UP AND WOULD LOOSE ME. "" HE KNEW THAT I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE (JUST A FRIEND) ON THE INTERNET TO GO CANOEING WITH."" HE CALLS ME SEVERAL TIME A DAY NOW,. AND A PLUS-- HE HAS A LAPTOP ! SO GO FOR IT GIRL !

GOOD LUCK ! SIGNED~~~~~GOING THROUGH IT TOO!!

PS A LITTLE BIRD WHISPERED IN MY EAR THERE MAY BE A RENEWAL OF VOWS! BUT I'M NOT HOLDING MY BREATH.. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS , AND IF HE IS THINKING THAT WAY, I KNOW WE ARE GOING TO GET THROUGH THIS.....SSSSSSHHHHHH