What is up with these guys? I'm having have a really hard time figuring my Aqua man out.. I feel like he's trying extra hard to pretend as if he has no feelings for me at all, but it's written all over his face. I find it funny, actually. There is no denying the awesome chemistry between us and we can't seem to stay away from each other for too long.

Can anyone give me some insight? I've never been involved with an Aquarius. Negative and positive experiences please..

Thanks!

I usually avoid Cancers period and Ive never connected with one... not even as friends.

What happened was he started making me feel really bad. I felt like he was playing games with me. Id try to communicate and be direct with him, but he couldn't seem to deal with that. It seemed like he beat around the bush a lot. He'd always wait for me to make any initiative. I never smothered him or bothered him.. I kept my cool the entire time.. He never knew that he was all I thought about. Maybe I didnt give him the attention he needed. IDK.. He used to do wierd little things for attention too. Anyway, Our last conversation was after he mysteriously dissappeared for a week then randomly texted me asking me if I wanted to F***. He never did that before. I was really hurt by it and let him have it.. He acted like he didnt care about my feelings at all. I couldnt deal with the pain so I thought cutting him out of my life completely and saying mean things to him would solve it. Well.. The pain is still here.

Sure... I could use a little advice.

Long story short: I met someone about 8 months ago. Hes a Cancer and I'm a Sag. I felt something with this person that seemed unreal. Ive never felt this way.. I still can't figure out why or what this intense connection we had meant.. I think we both felt the intensity, but didnt know how to go about it.. I know I was afraid of getting hurt.. he never revealed his feelings for me, but I could see it in his eyes.. We talked for about 4 months, but Things didnt work out... we ended on bad terms. Ive been devasted ever since. I cannot seem to get over this person.. Ive tried, but everyone else who comes into my life can't do it for me. I feel empty and numb. I feel like he is the person I am supposed to be with. This is so unlike me.. I just want to move on and live my life happily, but I cant let go of this.

Could I be completely dillusional or was this something real?

Completely ignore him and move on... I know you love the guy, but is he really worth your time? You deserve someone who makes you feel good, dont you think?

I couldn't stand the way the Cancer man I was seeing made me feel so I told him to kick rocks! I'm done with games... This man was not worth it if he couldn't even make an effort. I did my part and I wasn't going to chase him. I'll bet he's sorry he messed up. I know what I've got... and he's missing it.

I think if he really cares he would make more of an effort to talk to you.. try not to stress yourself out too much. Just keep on living. Things will fall into place.

Good luck to you.

Run!

He's trying to suck you in get a tight hold on you with his claws...Once he does he will crawl back into his shell and leave you hanging. Surely you already know this.

Best of luck to you!

Ugh... Im a Sag Girl and I just had a horrible time with a Cancer guy. I almost instantly fell for this guy (So rare for me) Long story short, My entire life went haywire...was told he was my soulmate... I totally believed it too. We are not on speaking terms at the moment.... I still don't know how he feels about me and it was too painful to carry on the type of relationship we had. So I cut it off. I feel empty and I feel like I wont find that kind of connection with another man, but it was killing me. I'm trying to move on, but he's still in my head.

Somethimes I think things didnt work out due to our differences. He's very stubborn and closed off. I feel as if he hid his feelings for me for some reason... I feel like he may have viewed me as being "unsafe" . I'm very independent and far from the housewife type. He seemed like he was afraid to get serious with me. We don't know how to handle each other... I guess. Miscommunication. We seem to be living in different worlds. I do not think Cancer and Sag mesh well at all! Next tine I meet a Cancer I'll be sure to run in th opposite direction. I would hate to endure this kind of pain again.

Good luck with your Cancer... You found a good one

OMG! I feel everyone's pain. Especially you VIRGO99!

I felt like my Cancer was playing with my head. I couldn't take it anymore.He threw me completely off balance... My whole entire life went haywire. I was nothing but nice and honest with this person. I gave him more than he deserved. I felt like he wanted me to beg for his attention.. What for? He didnt give me what I needed emotionally. He basically left me feeling empty... Like my soul was being torn out.

Yes... Its that serious.

Last time we communicated, I cussed him out and said my good byes. Hopefully I didn't hurt his sensitive Cancer feelings too much, but I was nice for too long. Surely what I said to him couldn't sting enough in comparison to how he made me feel. He can go mess with someone else's brain. I still want him.. He still haunts me, but I can't do it to myself anymore. Its too painful. I had to just let it go. I'm hoping to forget him soon, but sadly, I don't think I ever will.

Good luck to you all with your Cancer men.

HI Firefly,

Recently I met someone who has turned my life upside down.. I cannot pin point how he feels about me. I feel like he is afraid of me or something. He's very stubborn and hard to talk to.. I know how I feel and its been tearing me apart. I feel there is so much more to us for some reason and I can't let it go. I just want to move on and be happy again, but something will not let me. I need answers.

His Bday is 6/27/83 and mine is 11/30/83.

Can you tell me what forces are causing him to be the way he is, how he feels about me and if anything will progress between us within the next 2 months?

Thank you,

Michelle

Sometimes I think the Cancer I know purposely does things to make himself seem uninterested so I will give him attention... I know exactly what he's doing. Besides,I already told him I was, but he doesn't seem to understand or wants to hear it all of the time.

Cancer men are game players due to their insecurities... If I ever meet one again I'll be sure to run as fast as I can in the other direction. Why can't they just be straight up?

Ugh... So Frustrating!

The Cancer guy I know likes to delete me from Myspace in order to get my attention... I don't understand why he just cant call or text like a normal person... I lost all patience. haha