I believe you need to move on and stop worrying about this ex which you referred to him as. You are suffering from depression and having dark moods re the black magic. This man have moved on and so should you. That psychic should be ashamed of themself for not advising you to move on to a man that can be a current and can relieve the suffering you explain. We all loose love at some point in our lives but we can be found when we realize that the only love past present and future is self love. That love can never be sabotaged and has nothing to do with outside forces. Please stop obsessing, things will work out fine if you remember you cant win them all.