Thanks. My foundation card was the four of Wands, which seems to speak to relationships with friends/others but not romantic relationships. And now that I go back and look at the reading I'm even more confused. My Higher Power was The Lovers which definately supports remaining in my marriage. My Love Challenge card is Death, which has appeared in A LOT of my readings, but is it relating to my marriage or my affair? My significant Other is the Queen of Swords & suggests a separation to regain my bearings but again, my marriage or my affair? I'm sure this is obvious but I've not really studied the Tarot so rely on the interpretation given to me... maybe some study would help. Thanks again.

Before I begin, I just ask in advance that you not judge or condem me.

I have been unhappily married for several years. We've been working on the relationship but it just doesn't seem to be improving. At this point I believe separation/divorce is in the new future.

About 18 months ago I began an affair with a man for whom I have very strong feelings.

Here's my question: I just did a Relationship Celtic Cross reading asking for clarity about my mariage. The cards seem to contradict themselves and it seemed as if some of the cards spoke to my marriage and others to my affair. Is this possible?

Note: I've had several readings (Tarot, astrological, numerology, psychic) over the past 3 years and all seem to confirm that my marriage is headed for divorce.

thanks