lol...piscesmoonshine....very true. Playing the "victim" is the first thing I thought of when I dealt with cancer males (when they are the ones who cause havoc.) After having the similar experience twice (express extreme interest then he went MIA)...not only will I guard my heart more but, I keep any cancer men I meet in the "friend zone".

I have had experience with the cancer male...twice. Both times were identical. I really think they like to "hook" you to feed their ego. While they really have no intention on being in any sort of relationship.(i.e. inconsistency, no calling/texting, missing in action). Ive never experience that sort of extreme inconsistency before even when I was married.

I have been positive with my new experience. He pursued me..BUT, there are some WARNING SIGNS that he is not being truthful or just inconsistant such as:

** Have not talked to him in 3 days...when he did call he was very brief and said he will call back later...didnt happen

** He always calls from work

When I met him....I asked him if he was married or in a relationship and his reply was "no". Women's intuition tells me to "keep it movin" and no contact with.

Take it as a lesson learned and its good that you know this now about him so, you wont waste anymore time.

I really think that this is how some cancer men operate.

Hang in there!!

He was not consistent in his communication. In the beginning he would call, text etc. (even told me he has not felt the way he felt for me about anyone in a long time) and wanted a relationship with me....then it dwindled with his lack of contact. Im 39 and really dont/didnt have time for the emotional rollercoaster or game playing so, I told him its just best we go our separate ways and no contact....In essence, I think he wanted a relationship but he really wasnt ready or just didnt want one with me.

OMG....I have had a interesting experience with the Cancer man (you can look at my prior post). Mine did something similar with all of this hot and heavy talking via text. BUT, when it was time and we were face to face.......IT WAS A FLOP. I really wonder if this is a defense mechanism for them because they are insecure.

I will be interest in what others will say. I posted about my experience with a cancer male and he said and did all of the right things and then he suddenly pulled away (stopped calling, texting, email etc.) I couldnt take the emotional rollercoster with him. I think they get in their moods or have some sort of insecurity about the relationship.

So very true......going to stay positive. Thanks

I have had a not so pleasant experience with a Cancer male (i.e. inconsistency and moodiness) and I grew tired of it and had to bring it to an end. Since then I have met a new guy.......and wouldn't you know it he is a Cancer too (sigh). By the way Im a Sag.

I really hope my previous expereince was an isolated incident.

Thats his small way of keeping you in his life. (Ive experienced a similar situation with a cancer man). With them you gotta keep it moving....because, their inconsistency will wear you out.