Thank you so much for your concern and yes, there are many more questions than answers. I will be happy to discuss this further offline.
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RE: Taurus Apology
You are very kind. I actually read “How to know when it is not meant to be,” just today before replying to TrustNBelieve. We knew each other 25 years ago. We were reconnected by the friend who initially introduced us. What really got my attention was that I was always on his mind and he and our friend were talking about me as a possible romantic partner only 1 week b4 I visited their city - we live 1400 miles apart. He committed to seeing me every month. He proposed after 3 months. We dated for 1 year before getting married. We were only supposed to be apart for another year until my son finished high school. Then 4 months after we wed, while visiting me, we had a disagreement. Later he told me that the wedding had been a mistake. I travelled to see him to try to work things out. It didn't go well. We haven't really spoken since then.
I know that it will take time, but right now I am having a hard time.
RE: Taurus Apology
Your comments struck me b/c my Taurus left me after only 4 months of marriage. He told everyone (not me) that we moved too fast and blamed me for pushing him into it. If only he had confided his true feeling b4 we said "I do." It would have saved soooo much heartache. 5 months after leaving, he filed for divorce even though I wanted to work it out. He said it was all about him and what he wanted and to date, he still won't speak to me about his decision or anything else.
I don't know how you ended it with your "Special One", but in recognition of the love and respect that you once shared, it would be a very unselfish thing to at least share your feelings. It will help bring some closure. I only wish my Taurus could give me some sort of explanation and yes - a genuine apology.
RE: Pisces woman/Taurus man
Thank you for your response, Captain.
Perhaps I should have included a bit more information. My concern is less about the social interaction. The bigger problem is that after some initial attempts he will no longer talk about our problems. A few weeks ago he confessed that he didn't know why he is so disconnected, but after 5 months, we should have been able to work things out. Instead, he doesn't even want to try. He says he is not willing to take the risk. The problem was major misunderstandings and his feeling that he couldn't open up with me.
Maybe we moved too quickly. We were reintroduced by a mutual friend in May 2009 after 25 years apart. He proposed in October 2009 and we were married in July 2010. We are both over 40 and he pursued me because he knew what he wanted. It was a dream come true for me - my first marriage, his second. Now it seems the dream is over.
I don't know what to do. Is this just fear that will blow over with this period of separation or is my marriage to the man of my dreams really over?
Pisces woman/Taurus man
Hello, I'm new to this forum, but I am at my wits end. I married a former sweetheart (reconnected after 25 years) July 2010. We decided to continue to live apart (1400 miles) for 1 year due to my son finishing his last year of high school. However, by Nov. 2010, my new husband became disconnected after an argument and we have been going downhill ever since. I'm leaving a lot out, but suffice it to say that we are now talking divorce and we haven't even made it to our 1st anniversary. I travelled 1400 miles to see him in February hoping that we could work things out, but the trip was a disaster. He went out with friends (on my birthday) instead of staying at home with me.
Shuabby, I have read several of your posts and wonder if you have any thoughts or anyone else out there who has some insight into where his mind is and whether anything can be done to save my marriage?
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