Yes, Captain... my self-esteem really took a beating with his betrayal. I would love to be able to see the future to see if I will get my mojo back!! LOL

Thanks so much for your insight zoinkss77!!

I really like the idea of burning or throwing away all the things I have kept... we were together 20 years and I do need to rid myself of some of the things I keep around the house...reminders of him are everywhere... I need to purge all the pain and anger and sense of loss. I would love to find peace inside myself and move forward!

I have been reading about Aquarius lately... you are right ... we were not compatible in so many ways but it seemed to work for 17 of the 20 years somehow. I have noticed that there have been a couple Pieces men who have asked me out.. But I haven't been able to open my heart enough to let anyone in but it was fun to have a date after all these years!

I am moving out of state soon... so you are right... my new life awaits!! Thanks again for your input!

Both... I was very hurt that he left me... We had a very great love for a long time and when he started pulling away ... I got depressed and felt lost. It was a slap in the face that she was so young. Just a year and a half older than my son. I have been so easily replaced. I miss the man I loved for decades. I just hope I can find a way to get over this and move on.

I was devistated by the divorce.. I had hoped we could work through it but he has moved the young girl into my house ... she is taking over what was my life. So I know he has moved on... Im wondering if I will ever get over this. I wished that he would find that she is wrong for him and come back to me but I guess I dont see that happening. I just wondered if there will ever be closure with this relationship. Will I ever get over this? Are good things coming my way?

I have been divorced for 1 year and a half. My husband left me for a girl 24 years younger and it totally broke my heart. I have not been able to move forward completely. I have not been able to have closure. I still love him even after he did all this. My birthday is 11-10-57 and his is 1-28-56. Will there ever be a chance to heal? Do I even want it to heal?