Hey, tell either side how you feel in a positive way, dont be demanding in expecting them to understand as sometimes people just dont and are set in their ways but be honest and tell them this is tearing you and your life apart. Tell them that you will have no contact with either as it is unfair for them to make you choose but tell them that you are there for them to contact anytime they feel the need to. You should not have the demands of others put upon you because of what is going on in their head as you will probably not come to a decision and if you do, you may not feel you have made the right one. I dont know the situ that leads each side to be this way, maybe each side feels they have valid reasons but if you base your decision around their validity then later in life your children in some way will bear the brunt of this. Just take some time away from them and as i said earlier, leave them all to contact you when they want to, tell them your relationship with them is a separate issue and if they love and respect you enough they will honor you and what you have done.
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RE: What is the right choice?
RE: Can't get him out of my head..
OMG, you would sacrifice your happiness for a moment of your own stupidity not telling him how you feel...tut tut tut. next time you speak, tell him how you feel, say you dont know how to interpret your own feelings but you sure as hell want to spend more time with him in more of a dating way to see how things go. Tell him you dont think youve ever been in love before and you think you have strong feelings for him but you want to see what happens and if all goes well...wahay...if not then you would just accept a friendship and enjoy the time you had together. If this guy is as great as you say then he will understand and hopefully you will be dating soon xxx
RE: Am I wasting the pretty and my text minutes?
Take it as slow as your comfortable with, if he is interested he will wait for you. Remember he may not be single or he may be meeting and talking to other girls just as he is you and maybe this is the kinda guy who takes the first come first served basis, just goin with your eyes open and your heart wary. You have to give a bit of trust as youll never let anyone in but...be wise to guys suggestions because they ask you something and let you believe the decision is yours when really its their way of getting you to do what they want you to do.