They are just very scared of getting hurt and that is why they do the push and pull thing. Deep inside, they are a softie @ heart and terribly sentimental. It takes me a long time (and gone thru' an awful lot with his hot and cold) to realize this. They keep up such a tough facade that it is very difficult to get close to unless you get to spend a period of time with them to let them develop trust in you. I find it exceptionally challenging and discouraging at times. It is their undying loyalty and being there for you that won me over ultimately.
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RE: With Scorpio man (why are they so hot and cold)
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With Scorpio, you have to really sensitive. He may act as if he is insensitive and aloof or as if he does not care about what you said or think. But he is putting up a front. Inside, he is a pretty sentimental and sensitive guy. It took a me while to realize. I admit I find it exhausting being with him at times as he never ever opens up. If he opens up just a little, he holds back immediately and does the disappearing act. Very strange and challenging for me as I am an open and friendly person (Aquarius with Leo rising, Scorpio moon). But he is a very sweet man who always remember what I said and seek to do very thoughtful things. Oh! When the chips are down, he will be there immediately. I love this about him despite his shortcomings. Sadly, we broke up as he gets more secretive and disappear for weeks. I just cannot deal with it.