Apologies for double-posting, but I forgot to add. Mostly, I want him to feel safe and comfortable with me and want to be around me, and I'm not sure how to do that at this stage...
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RE: At wit's end with Cancerian male...
Thank you for replying.
I agree that I need to understand his feelings better. I have told him tonight that I think I need some time away from him, too, because the change in him has been very shocking and heartbreaking and I need to take care of myself for a while. Was that too harsh? I love him and want him to return desperately, but I don't think it's good for me to get so swept up in his emotional whirlpool.
At wit's end with Cancerian male...
Hello all. I have been lurking on here for ages, but finally decided to sign up out of pure desperation. Apologies for getting straight to the point. Cancerians! Ugh! What to do with them? I have known a certain male of the Crab species for seven years - both of us being in our early twenties at this stage - and have been in a relationship with him for five. He's romantic, tender, sensitive and in need of a little thing called "space in undetermined quantities". These things I found out shortly after starting a relationship with him and his varying moods are quite a thing to juggle, however, I have been tormented throughout this month, trying my utmost to read this man, after he suddenly distanced himself from me after a minor disagreement. Minor disagreement being him feeling upset about perfectly innocent teasing on my part. Subsequently, I have been blocked from his messengers, told that I make him uncomfortable and that he needs breathing space since he's dealing with a lot at the moment. Alright. Being a somewhat overly proud Lioness, however, this annoyed me more initially than inspire empathy and I've been having a hell of a time trying to get him to tell me what's really going on and if we're still together or not. Yes, I've been pushy, pressuring, begging, etc, etc. What else is there to do? I understand his need for space, but I want my Cancerian back to the romantic gentleman who could never get enough of me, he used to be... How do I go about winning him over again?