I was in an on again, off again relationship with a gemini man for over 10 years. At the beginning, it was wonderful, we got along great, we both adored each others children, had lots of great times, and great sex! Then the jealousy began, he became so controlling, which led to physical abuse. The abuse escalated over the years, it was always the same old line, i love you, i'm sorry, i'll never do it again. Which i know the abuse lasted because i allowed it to. I kept thinking he'll change this time. And things would get better for a while, then it was almost as if he became possessed by an evil spirit. It was like there was two of him. One good, one bad. In the end, he ended up putting himself in prison over being his stubborn me, me,. me, poor pitiful me. He is about to get out on parole soon. I hope that he stays away from me. My life has been so peaceful since he has been gone. And to think, he had me brainwashed into thinking that no one else would ever love me like him. I am single now, and happy to be at peace with my son and me, at home peacefully. I did love him with all my heart, but I know he probably won't change, and i'm tired of trying to hold on to something that only brings me heartache, loneliness and tears. I wish the best to him. I also wish the best for me and my son,and he is not.