Can anyone tell me what the outcome would be if I contacted my ex. I would love for him to contact me back but I am in two minds in case he does contact me and I find out he is with someone else. I would rather be ignored. I feel I need to take one last go of trying to reconcile with him. It's been a while since we have properly talked but I feel that I have worked through whatever issues I had when we were together and the reasons we split. Thank you.

Oh dear. I tried meeting up before but backed out thinking he was too busy for me. I guess it’s up to me then. Will he not do any of the initiating?

Timing questions are hard! I just tried it and got 6 weeks but I haven’t got a clue. I usually only do it with 1 card but I will also try your way. I got page of pentacles, 5 wands and page of pentacles. Then drew out the star. What do you make of it?

Hmm.. maybe - just concentrating on the straight readings for now, might be a good thing.

February sounds like a possibility. We’re both teachers and we have a holiday then.

Yes I believe there were communication issues and there was longing on my part. I don’t know whether there was longing from his part. It seemed so at first and then out of the blue he finished it. I wasn’t happy though because because I didn’t believe he wanted to be with me. .

There was always false promises and he seemed to have emotional issues. We tried to talk on some occasions but not sure he really tried with what we discussed.

During the break up we didn’t talk, i told him I didn’t want to speak to him again. Then I missed him. Not only as a boyfriend but as a friend ( we were friends before). I messaged him on the odd occasion and asked him for work advice, then i asked him if he wanted to meet up for coffee but felt he was just saying yes to keep the peace (He’s that type of person – he doesn’t like people thinking badly of him) so I backed out. I then left it and walked away.

Just before Christmas my friend text him so I text him to apologise. He replied nicely, as always and used it as an opportunity to ask for his opinion on something. Then I sent him a christmas card, which i got no response to. When I saw him out a few days ago, we seemed to go in different directions. Why didn’t he want to talk to me?

Ten of Swords - yep. It ended there. It is over. So is it over for good? Or over that time round?

Was he resisting opening up? I believe so (which is why I say emotional issues on his part)

I know it’s been a while since we split up and I say that I believe we are meant to be together but isn’t that what everyone says. I miss the friendship, as well as the potential if the relationship. Maybe he wasn’t in the right place for a relationship (he ran, as you said) People tell me I should move on and with a new year what do you think?

How do you pick the significator?

Thank you Astra.

I find it really interesting what you have to say.

So should I get back in contact with him? Or leave him for a bit? Have you got any ideas of when reconciliation will occur?

Can you tell me why he split up with me in the first place and what does he think of me now?

It's all very insightful and also helps me to see how other people deal with these questions. I am asking for me but do get these questions when giving readings and not always sure how to tackle them. Thank you for the insight to what's going on in my life and also the ideas of how to approach tarot. Always happy to learn new things.

Love and light. X

thank you very much. wow. other than seeing each other yesterday, in passing, we haven't really spoken to each other. If we do it's to ask him for work advice. any ideas how things will be more positive between us, as proper communitcation doesn't seem likely at the moment. Despite this, I still i have a good gut instinct about this relationship so I'm glad your reading backed it up.

I saw my ex, who I split up with 8 months ago, yesterday. Could you do a reading to find out whether there will ever be a reconciliation romantically or as friends?

Thank you in advance. New year, new start. It may clear my head