Your a Taurus?

I'm a Cancer and yes, me and my Taurus boyfriend hold on to everything. Its funny, because with both of us, we never let go. But sometimes it would just be healthier if one of us did. YOU want to be over her, if she is over you shouldn't be a factor in your getting over her.

You shouldn't concern yourself with if she thinks about you or not, it may feed false hope. All in all, its not healthy as you are trying to let go of her.

Can I join?

I am a Cancer, and personally, I have been attracted to but it has never worked out with a Cancer man. They are so wishy washy, where as I feel the females are not. Females generally tend to be more expressive though.

I am with a Taurus now, its amazing!

Oh! He mentioned Nora Roberts...is Grisham a mystery sort of writer? Some books/series by an author are cheaper than others...as a book lover, do you think I would seem cheap if I bought him like a couple of books, like how many?

I know Tauruses have a taste for expensive things, so even though I know her would appreciate it, I wonder subconsciously if he may finds it cheap...i guess.

Yea I was going to buy him a huge set of John Grisham books since he is a huge fan, and he doesn't own many of them.

Okey dokey,

so the Holiday season is coming up and I am sure we are busy buying gifts for significant others/friends/family. So I just wanted to use this thread as advice for what to buy.

I want to buy my significant other something, hes a Taurus, I am a Cancer (although stating your star sign isn't necessary.) I was planning on buying him something to add to his large collection of books? no, yes? would Taurus like this?

Lets share ideas and i would love to hear ppls as well!

**but even from a non-cancer perspective, i think this shows ne woman is done.

As a Cancer girl myself, I think shes done.

This doesn't mean she may actually really want to be done, as we are fickle minded and go back and forth between things, sometimes actually convincing ourselves that we want this thing...going on a self destructive path, where we cut that person out for good. Well I don't think thats the case here.

With Cancers, sometimes I know (as bad as it is) we cut or distance people, just to see how much they care and if they will come running. It seems in your case you have made it obvious to her that you care and constantly keep approaching her. She is getting that so called attention she wants, but if honestly, all that is not making her budge...sorry to break it to you, but shes done!

She went as far as to delete you off everything. Also most Cancers will make you run for their affection, but they will turn softer with each attempt and inside they will just be so happy/floored that you texted/emailed them. Despite your efforts, your Cancer seems to be having none of it. So pretty much, whether it started as something she had convinced herself she wanted or really wanted, she has reached that point. And theres no going back with a Cancer when they do that.

Okay, I am going to be completely HONEST with you, as a Cancer myself and as someone who knows many cancer men (some of them my close friends, relatives and family.)

Well, my friends always thought that this one guy (who is a cancer and now one of my good friends) used to like me. They used to be like, "he stares at you all the time," he even wanted to spend time with me all the time (and that too alone), he liked hanging out with me, he was shy and would run away when he saw me, he would stutter, he would be at a loss for words at times. My friends were hell bent on setting me up with him, but me being a cancer, i wasn't so sure he liked me (and I sort of liked him, but not really.)

Reason 1- He stares ALOT: Trust me, my cancer guy, STARED like there was no tomorrow and he would never see me again. This is JUST HOW CANCERS ARE. Every cancer I know (including me) are observant to the tee. We love looking at people, their reactions and we generally like eye contact. I think that is part of the reason we are called intuitive, all we do is stare at times. Sometimes we would much rather be silent and figure the person out through action and not through speech, hence, we stare.

Reason 2- He is shy: We all are, sorry to break it to you. We get very shy, especially if we find someone attractive, BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN we like them. Cancers, I find, can find so many ppl attractive and that can keep us shy and held back for A VERY LONG TIME. But for us, if were not emotionally attached, their just nice to look at, but doesn't mean we want to be with them.

Reason 3- He stutters, runs away: Cancer men tend to have a lot of pride and are sensitive, public image for them is key! Even in front of ppl they have known for a long time. Remember this, he could just be stuttering because he wants you to know the real him. He wants you to have a good impression of him.

Basically end of my cancer story, one of my friends just asked him and he said "shes a cool person, but I don't see her like that." We became good friends after that and I saw him in action with other girls. If a Cancer man wanted you, he would SHOW you. Its simple as pie, they will run after you, try to get your email/phone number on the sly. They will not play too many mind games when they like you. My guy also used to be protective of me, and that is another reason the girls thought he liked me, when another guy came up to me etc. That is just a Cancer protective nature, especially towards those they want to be friends with.

KEY: DO NOT MISTAKE A CANCER LIKING YOU WHEN THEY WANT TO BE GOOD FRIENDS. Cancers seek depth and emotion everywhere, even in FRIENDSHIP! They want a person who understands them and make sure they are life long. Does not mean they like you.

SORRY if i was harsh, hope it helped.

p.s. if you still want to pursue it, tell him straight up. Trust me its the only way, if his answer is silence of i dont know, and he dissapears- he doesn't like you. Cancer, if they do like you, will run to the chance to be with you, if you tell and he says he likes you back- then you have an answer.

**tend to be rational