"until she wakes up plops her backside in the middle of my couch, with her lap top on MySpace, TV on, a bowl of icecream on one side of the couch, and a bag of flaming hot cheetos on the other.. and there she will SIT until it's time for her dad to get home from work, and she will stand in the driveway waiting for him to get home so she can intercept him from talking to me, and then it starts again. "

jyl tell that girl to grow up get a job and maybe some friends; maybe she could look at flatting/study and try and get some one on one time with your man..being a cancer you have a way with words. Like hard hinting lmao

Maybe some simple rules of the house, theyd have to be with your partner though so you are united. Maybe talk with him?

shes gota be doin her own thing its not fair on anyone or your relationship will suffer maybe to the point of destruction.

Sometimes some tuff love couldnt go astray, while shes living with you she should respect your space..and time with your husband. Communicate alone without arguing or defences?

shes an adult now time to start acting like one, responsibilty is missing..id feel lost without my independence. Maybe she has low self esteem but nothing will change if things stay the same .

ps- a person should not feel like a stranger in thier own home!

airies annoy me:) and scorpios theyre a well of emotion and you can feel them even what thier not saying, maybe we r attracted to the people that cannot vent and maybe they find us so we can vent for them?? Ive past the stage of games and mystery altho i love it at times; right now i just want people to be straight up !Sometimes im so straight up its brutal but luckily people understand. that id rather hear the truth no matter what,.i cant keep looking to avoid hurting other peoples feelings.. I ve never met a thieve taurus?? Bt im finding that leos are good for us and i myself am partenerd with a leo they are the loyal companion type although at times i need time out as they seem to want to be mothered I just get angry at it lol people depending on me..so im hard on him but we have a mutual understanding for music and the arts.. We had a friendship first and that i find keeps the foundation of our relationship

scorpios are deep but somethings they need to do alone

hi PEOPLE , Im a sun cancer gemini moon and aquarius ascedant I was born a month early so would have been a leo ..a walking contradiction! my mother and father are cancers as well as a younger brother and i have many cancer friends..

I am an artist and a chef(at the mo).. I find that other cancerians are very intense..and I hve found it hard to find a balance between caring too much and pushing people away as i have to deal with things sometimes they cant admit to themselves..i love people,, and i find the best way to deal with my emotions is to paint, sculpt cook sing..the creative arts. All i can say is follow your gut instinct and your sensitivity is a gift..altho at times it can be a curse. But to be in a position where you cant help would be worse to me.

I have a knack of finding the words to express what others are feeling which can be weird , to be empathetic to others even animals and plants. Can you love too much?

The hardest thing is to vent to not suck up other peoples crap like a sponge no matter how much you care because you store it up and it can create self harm or unsurface built emotion at the wrong times..sometimes I want to be the most genuine connection so i open myself fully but as youll find it can lead to headaches, abdominal pains, sleeplessness and stress, you worry for things that arent in your power its not fair..for to help other people you have to be in a steady grounded place yourself..so by flitering energies directed at you you can help more...

Baths are awesome, or visual activities, like washing your worries off in the shower and watching them go down the drain, insence, time out:)

I am a parental sort of person, keeping some ties far beyond thier date..but I am a loyal freind and a hardworker. I find it most confusing when the things you hear from a person dont match with the feelings you get from them. Im am both an introvert and an extrovert..but i like to be behind the scenes I dont need adknowledgement as much as other people. I love to feed people to make sure they know someone cares for them.

Some people think im weird becos I will express myself even if its not understandable ie in gestures made up words lol I just get it out. And i find it hard to feel people that have a lot of emotion inside they cant let go of...

The past..oh we have a really hard time to let anything go..but it formed who we are didnt it? I used to love antiques..etc just chillin in my comfort zone..but remember you can always come back to it

Cancerians are family oreientated wether they are related or not and i think the aquarian in me relates it to the whole world..sometimes i have wordly moments where I am so small and I want to do big things to help the people and i can be stressed with current events etc . People are the treasure and I can relate to almost anyone..so to me being a cancerian is a gift ..it can be hard at times.. but would you have it anyother way.

With some cancerians they want to please people so badly (ie if you feel good ill feel good) that they cannot possibly do everything they say or want to with the best intentions at heart and that can be frustrating.

I ve noticed that in relationships the water signs are very intense almost magnifies in emotion so good times are really good bad times are really bad. I was in a relationship with a taurus(our perfect match) and that lasted 6 years..until we both had different life paths.

Now I am with a musical Leo and he takes the spot light when I want to chill and we have a lot of creative similarities. he loves my cookin and nuturing and he makes me laugh entertains me. I can be honest and open because of mutual trust which can take a while to have..So for now I am happy