Thank you all for your advice.
The name of the Virgo guy is Munice and the name of the Aries guy is Ameer .
Basically I met Munice 8 years ago through an arranged marriage way. For some reason it never happened although he said he was interested in me. I never kept in touch with him, but last year I met him through an online website and we met up again. He proposed to me after a couple of meetings. The thing I am concerned with about him is that he is very opinionated especially in his religous views whereas I am more moderate. We have already had some conflict about our beliefs to a certain extent.
With Ameer, I met him at my cousins wedding in 2010. We kept in touch online and through skype and he visited me here since he is from the US and I also visited him there and spent a considerable amount of time together. I have known him better and we started off as friends.
My family are apprehensive about me marrying him because of his past and as he has responsibilities plus I will have to relocate. Its all a big risk.
But I guess even though I know I am more suited to Munice since he is more mature, and intellectually we are on the same wavelength I feel a sense of freedom with Ameer, and he is young spirited like myself, although his immaturity is a worry for me as he doesn't like to discuss any serious topics.
As you can see I am conflicted. Munice is not into dating for religious reasons and is therefore not happy to wait around, and I have felt some pressure from him in giving a decision. I have however postponed my decision until I feel really sure.
Right now I don't really know what is right but everyone has told me that I won't meet the perfect guy and if i have chemistry and compatibility with anyone that should be enough.
My head is saying go for Munice and my heart for Ameer.
But I am ready to be married and I would just like to take a leap of faith and make the commitment now. I just want to know who the right person is I guess.
I hope with this info perhaps anyone could shed some more light?