@Jubisay I have noticed that my ex mother in law was one and with this guy soo much makes sense! Walking on eggshells untill I say hi to her to figure out if she is in a good mood or not!

I’m a Virgo, I’ve just ended a phone call with him I told him I didn’t like who I was becoming with him. And I needed some time to figure things out.. he told me that my behaviour was a bit much and he kept trying and giving me chances untill he couldn’t handle anymore, he said he kept giving it time to see because he did really like me but it was getting worse and I know it was he kinda brought out a needy obsessive overthinking side of me and I hated it! He endured it for longer than I would have!

He said he will wait and that he will want to see what happens in the future! So I am just going to do me!

And get myself in order stop overthinking and whatever happens happens I need to kinda get over my feelings for him in order to start fresh and try me friends first to see what happens!

Thank you so much for your understanding really appreciate it’

You guys are very caring and sweet.. it’s hard not to love you guys when you are having a good day ️

@dancervibes06 thank you so much for your kind words! The ending was from me!

I can’t handle it, I came out needy obsessive overthinking and it isn’t me he brought out the worst in me!

And he said that’s what pushed him away! And I felt so toxic I had to end it! I said I needed time for some soul searching and to find myself and figure out what went wrong!

I don’t blame him for falling in love he got played big time I know he is hurting he hides it well but I can’t hurt myself to make him better for someone else’

He said he will give me time and space and he will wait and see what happens in the future! I’m not letting myself be a doormat and let him walk all over me!

I need to stand up for myself and be strong! I think I hit a moment of clarity or it was an epiphany

Your words help so much and mean a lot you are very kind thank you so much from the bottom of my heart! I really appreciate it!

@dancervibes06 sorry I didn’t see your msg’ thank you soo so so so much! Yeah it’s a bit of a story! But we both played a part in it! I think I had to say it out and read it to realise how bad it was 🥰 thank you for your kind words

@dancervibes06 thank you! You have no idea how good it is to hear that!

To be honest I can’t believe I did that too not something i would have ever thought I would have the guts to do! But I thought about it a lot and realised it’s something I have to do!

Either he’s a lesson or it will be more in the future for now I need to do me! I kinda lost my self confidence and I need to get it back!

I appreciate your help so much! I don’t know how to read tarot but if you ever need help with anything I’m willing to try and help as much as possible! Atleast give words of encouragement if nothing more 🥰️

@segment my feelings want to be with him soo badly! My heart does too! But my head says you need to figure things out, stop obsessing over analysing! And then my gut says do you trust him?! So I need all of them on the same page before I can make any decisions on what to do in this situation!

And if he is the one he will wait for me to figure it all out! Time to turn the pages and start testing the cancer man for once ️

@Ellarose thank you so much

@ScorpVirgo if he is sending you things like pictures he wants you to see and he is sharing with you which is a good thing I for instance don’t send anything to anyone I don’t really care for or want to talk to but everyone is different!

Has he ever shown any interest in being more than friends?

@ScorpVirgo

Hi I was reading your thread.. being a Virgo I just wanted to give you some insight altho im a girl we kinda are a bit alike..

Okay.. I like to get to know someone.. if wanting more than just friends I will want to talk to that person 24/7 and get to know everything about them

We are very observant we price the tiniest little things about people that no one else will ever notice!

And we love it when people remember and notice things about us!

If you come on too keen and msg all the time I know how I am! I will be like omfg leave me alone I haven’t replied to the other msgs (in my head) I would never tell you

If he isn’t interested at all he would not reply

Like ever maybe after like a week or so but if I’m not interested in someone I won’t even open a msg I have no interest in what they have to say and don’t want to leave them on read lol so I just ignore

It drives me insane being left on read and if someone did that to me because I know what it means when I do it!

Don’t msg him, don’t be too eager to reply well not too quick.. and don’t always reply

It will make him wonder what you are up to and want to chase you..

I also if I’m going through stuff tend to shut off and not talk to anyone for days my friends and family have learnt my moods I have sometimes months untill I feel like socialising again!

When I broke up with my last ex.. I was so heart broken no one knew for more than 6 months I hid it so well and just went mia

One last thing! We are never afraid to make the first move and text someone 100 times if we want them!

We don’t take well to hints we don’t read between the lines lol

We liked to be told straight even if you like him more than a friend he might notice but we overthink things and over analyse so he has probably thought of the whole she maybe does maybe doesn’t a lot!!

With me I don’t care about age! Men seem to like women who are older than them! ‍️

Age is just a number!!

Just don’t be too keen we kinda like the chase.. just be flirty compliment remember the little things and remind him and enquire about things he told you!!!

Eg.. told you a week ago his pet dog had a bit of a limp.. ask how his dog is doing..

He will love it!!

Hope it helps

@segment my feelings want to be with him soo badly! My heart does too! But my head says you need to figure things out, stop obsessing over analysing! And then my gut says do you trust him?! So I need all of them on the same page before I can make any decisions on what to do in this situation!

And if he is the one he will wait for me to figure it all out! Time to turn the pages and start testing the cancer man for once ️

@dancervibes06 sorry I didn’t see your msg’ thank you soo so so so much! Yeah it’s a bit of a story! But we both played a part in it! I think I had to say it out and read it to realise how bad it was 🥰 thank you for your kind words

@dancervibes06 thank you! You have no idea how good it is to hear that!

To be honest I can’t believe I did that too not something i would have ever thought I would have the guts to do! But I thought about it a lot and realised it’s something I have to do!

Either he’s a lesson or it will be more in the future for now I need to do me! I kinda lost my self confidence and I need to get it back!

I appreciate your help so much! I don’t know how to read tarot but if you ever need help with anything I’m willing to try and help as much as possible! Atleast give words of encouragement if nothing more 🥰️

@Jubisay thank you so much, really appreciate your kind words!

I know Virgo men are very different to women well I was talking to one for a little bit and honestly I couldn’t deal with him I don’t know how you lasted 3 years to be honest!

It was nice of him he is such a nice guy he has his own problems like everyone else but, he’s very understanding especially he said to me I’m not perfect and don’t expect you to be either. I over analyse and instead of asking I come to my own assumption of things and he said that’s what annoyed him the most! And that’s what I hate about myself too because I end up hurting myself in the process overthinking and either he was a good lesson or something more in the future! Time will tell!

Thank you so much for the help sending you lots of love and happiness 🥰

@dancervibes06 thank you so much for your kind words! The ending was from me!

I can’t handle it, I came out needy obsessive overthinking and it isn’t me he brought out the worst in me!

And he said that’s what pushed him away! And I felt so toxic I had to end it! I said I needed time for some soul searching and to find myself and figure out what went wrong!

I don’t blame him for falling in love he got played big time I know he is hurting he hides it well but I can’t hurt myself to make him better for someone else’

He said he will give me time and space and he will wait and see what happens in the future! I’m not letting myself be a doormat and let him walk all over me!

I need to stand up for myself and be strong! I think I hit a moment of clarity or it was an epiphany

Your words help so much and mean a lot you are very kind thank you so much from the bottom of my heart! I really appreciate it!

@Jubisay I have noticed that my ex mother in law was one and with this guy soo much makes sense! Walking on eggshells untill I say hi to her to figure out if she is in a good mood or not!

I’m a Virgo, I’ve just ended a phone call with him I told him I didn’t like who I was becoming with him. And I needed some time to figure things out.. he told me that my behaviour was a bit much and he kept trying and giving me chances untill he couldn’t handle anymore, he said he kept giving it time to see because he did really like me but it was getting worse and I know it was he kinda brought out a needy obsessive overthinking side of me and I hated it! He endured it for longer than I would have!

He said he will wait and that he will want to see what happens in the future! So I am just going to do me!

And get myself in order stop overthinking and whatever happens happens I need to kinda get over my feelings for him in order to start fresh and try me friends first to see what happens!

Thank you so much for your understanding really appreciate it’

You guys are very caring and sweet.. it’s hard not to love you guys when you are having a good day ️

@Selenite I have just now ended a phone call with him and told him I needed some time and space and need to find and figure myself out.. he said he will wait so see what happens in the future, if he is the one he will give me time and wait if not I’m not chasing after him anymore I will lose my mind! Thank you so much for your kind words and words of hope! Very much appreciated!

@Jubisay that’s exactly what I thought! I was there for him when she hurt him! But as soon as it ended I told him I had no interest in sex with him, he told me he isn’t interested in that if he wanted sex he would go and get it from someone else he just wants to be friends if it goes anywhere it does if it doesn’t it doesn’t but he doesn’t want any pressure or expectations!

He also told me that he fell in love with the wrong girl.. I think he pretty much said what I wanted to hear