This is so confusing I'm still very much a newcomer and have nothing but praise for the valuable information I have received on here. This site is not worth staying on if kind hearted people are unable to offer personal help and guidance. How can they be violating the rules, has Natapiers Karma reading been deleted if so, then why? . If all the good people leave here how will we find them ? Appreciate an answer thank you .

To see my beautiful granddaughter and be a family again

My life has been turned upside down since August 2010 , I am living in a nightmare situation and don't know how to move forward . My family and I, are desperately wanting to resume contact with my little 5yr old granddaughter . Her parents have fled the area isolating her from all the family, she was in our lives virtually everyday since birth .I have taken out a £10,000 loan to pay a Solicitor to take the matter to Court but we don't have any rights apparently , so I have asked for mediation can you see it working . My son and his wife's actions have left us totally shocked and bewildered but I can't talk about it on here . Please tell me if I have hope this little girl must think we have abandoned her she won't understand .

Your son and his wife are extremely jealous of your close relationship with their daughter and I don't see them getting over this anytime soon. Their feeling for you borders on hatred and they will indeed try to poison the child against you. But in her heart she will know the truth as she really is a very astute child. She will seek you out by herself when she is old enough and will not be permanently damaged by her parents' treatment.