I had a friend who ended up in the ER with chest pains and pain radiating down her left arm. They did their tests and found out her potassium was too low. I asker her if she took blood pressure medication and she does. Doctors don't tell you that these drugs deplete the body of potassium. Statin drugs (lipitor, crestor, etc.) deplete the body of CoQ10 but alot don't tell you to start supplementing with the OTC CoQ10. Why? I think it's because of the almighty dollar. And they can't regulate (control) vitamins and supplements. You do have to be careful with the natural approach also. Too much of a good thing can be bad for you. Moderation is the key.

None of these posts say if sex was introduced before commitment and for women, sex is emotional. Keep sex out as long as possible. Sex can really complicate and confuse any relationship. As soon as the guy wants it (and we know when that happens) put on a chastity belt and put her into lock down. Respect yourself enough to know you cannot base a relationship on sex. The key to a man is not sex; it's his emotions and him feeling they are safe with you. Don't tolerate bad behavior from a man. They are like little boys with big egos. Learn how to stroke that ego and learn how to LISTEN. Accept that your past relationships were lessons on learning what you truly want and don't not like a man because of what you allowed him to do. Have strong boundaries, morals and values and don't compromise any of them. Don't allow yourself to be treated like a doormat. You deserve better than that. Have an active life without him. A man wants what he can't have. But relationships are on their timeline. It doesn't seem fair and like it or not, that's just the way it is.

Tracer411,

This is soooo normal for a gemini man and woman. I've been seeing a gemini man for the past 4 years and there is not alot of affection. When I asked him about it, he said he's affectionate. Three of my children are gemini and my father also. They are a personality that will keep you confused. They are black/white, yes/no, up/down, total opposites in one person. That is normal for them. I call them the true bipolars of the zodiac. If he's not meeting your emotional needs, they do not do emotions (they run from them), you might want to either accept what you've gotten so far is as good as it gets or decide to move on. This is a difficult sign to understand. I have friends who have geminis in their lives tell me they often feel like asking the person, "who are you today?" and mean it. I have heard my man friend switch personalities over the phone. He sees a therapist once a month to try to figure out his personality. It will keep you on your toes and off balance. If you like that kind of challenge, go for it. Just keep the emotions very, very light. Don't ever try to pin him down. It will not work. Let the relationship be on his timeline and be greatful he's allowed you in his life. You will stay discombobulated. Sorry for the discomfort but they are awesome in bed.