wow well here is an update since my original post.
I had a party on Wednesday night, all men in attendance. I didn't plan for it to be that way, but I guess the majority of my friends are male and the females invited couldn't come. Well next day my Gemini bf was very hungover and I took care of him all day. I got a phone call from a friend and I talked to her on speaker. She brought up some guy I used to date 2 years ago, and I shushed her and turned it around that he was her ex. I just don't like or want to bring up ex boyfriends or hook ups around my current man. Well his mood totally changed after that he walked around the house and packed up everything he has here and started to walk out. I asked him to talk to me and he wouldn't.
I got him to stay and I could feel something was wrong and it was about that conversation, but he would not communicate. Later on he asked me if I had hooked up with another friend of mine who was at the party. I said, "no, he is just a very close friend of mine and is like a brother to me. We never hooked up."
Now this morning I woke up and checked my phone and it was clear he had gone through it. He read text messages and then texted my best friend "I think (His name) knows about (my ex) and (my last vacation)." So he's trying to get it out of her that I cheated on him on my vacation. That is what he assumed I did. When I asked him if he was on my phone he denied it. He then got a phone call picked up his stuff and walked out without saying a word.
My friend responded back on my phone that I should "tell him the truth". Why not I mean the truth isn't bad, but he probably assumed from her response that I did cheat and I needed to confess. I had to run outside and catch him so I could tell him that I didn't cheat. He didn't even want to talk to me, he was so stuck on his assumption of me cheating!!!!!!! So I told him that guy was 2 years ago and I did NOT cheat on my vacation. I got him back in the house and told him that although I don't tell him that I love him or care about him, I show it. He said it was true that he knows I care a lot.
And me being a cancer I was EXTREMELY EMOTIONAL! He asked me to be "less crazy" but I don't know how I could be when the man I love is walking out on me and won't even ask me about his concerns. I told him I will NOT let him go that easy and that he and I need to communicate more.
So now we are OK again, but I still feel very emotional. Been crying off and on all day over what happened. I am thinking about making him read my Linda Goodman Sun Sign book so he will better understand me.