Years ago, I was told by many different people in my life that if I wanted to change my situation; I was the only person that could change it. I would look at them as if they had done something wrong to me; however, once I began the process of becoming willing; it happened. Moreover, slowly I began embracing the difficult issue of change. Change is the hard part sometimes because you may have willingness; however, the changes it takes to accomplish a complete transition is extremely hard to accept. Nevertheless, if you accept change and have the willingness to make those changes through embracing what must occur to accomplish the change you will succeed.
Anything worth having is well worth willingness to accept the changes necessary to achieve whatever it is you are seeking. You will find a spiritual awareness never before felt once you are able to embrace these concepts.