I guess my title wasnt what i meant. I am not going to stay with this guy but I dont want us to never speak again. we have to much in common and have to much fun together not to be friends. I would just like to initiate this to move along so im not sitting here feeling like this. hes a pisces and he his mad at me, should i contact him first or wait for him to say something to me?

LEAVE THE GUY! IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL STOP SEEING HIS EX, IF NOT HE IS NOT WORTH IT.

hi, Im a libra female and have been in a rough relationship with a pisces man for almost 3 years. He has serious problems with being honest with me about seeing his ex wife. it took him a long time to commit to me (about 1 1/2 years) and for about a year now i have been trying to trust him when he says "i tell you when i see her".their relationship hasnt been sexual for a while but he has always snuck behind my back to hang out with her,and sooner or later i find out. well needless to say he was starting to pull back from me considerably,he would only come over or i was able to come over there when i bought food or was making dinner, or we were going out for the night. this upset me because i felt like i was being used.everytime i would bring up something that was bothering me he would ask me "dont do this right now",so i would never be able to discuss our problems with him.needless to say when we went out and had a few drinks i would totally get upset about these things i had to keep to myself. this has started to happen almost everytime we went out and got intoxicated. anyways so this past weekend the same thing happened,then he told me to leave and went to his room to sleep. well i looked in his phone(which if i know hes lying all i have to do is look in there and find out that i am usually right,that hes been seeing his ex)so i saw text messages from the weekend before that she had come over on saturday night. i was furious and picked up his expensive headphones and threw them against the wall yea the broke into a thousand pieces. he was super mad the next day when he woke up,understandably. after a short angry talk on the phone he said "i will talk to you later" and hung up. I know he loves me but his actions were inexcusable and i wont deal with it anymore(it obviously makes me crazy) and we dont need to be "together". we havent talked for about 4 days.nothing. should i call him? i have a need to discuss things even if i know there is no solution and i dont want to fight, but if he doesnt want to see me ever again i would like some kind of verbal conformation, not just silence. should i leave this pissed off pisces alone? he is usually pretty forgiving but i am afraid he is going to rip me a new one if i try to contact him. or should i just let him come to me? not knowing makes me feel physically ill help!