all you need is first to discourse this relationship out with him. dose he want to have you as his woman for a long time in the relationship or dose he just need an emotional connect only as you guys have just had over the months. call him and discourse this out if you think he is worth the pain. and if he becomes weird or snobbish then just nurse your pain with courage and move on with the friends you can connect with around. take a vacation or do something for charity.
know one thing as a woman you deserve every love you need and give love also to others irrespective of prejudices and divisions. love is the one language that is same and accepted anywhere around the world. so think good of your self and look on into the future with courage and self respect my dear sister!
love Jeffrey imieh
Abuja,Nigeria, West Africa