I to experiencethis sort of thing. Im seeking to find employment or something that takes up some of my time so my family can not relie on me to do things for them. Theyll have to start doing for themselves. i too need to let go some to. Sometimes I feel guilty if I don`t do things but on the other hand sometimes I feel like a maid .Hense the job will bring in a little money as well as help my family grow, hopefully?????????