You said grandmother that takes her grand kids to school! My mom has empty nest syndrome bad, I wonder if her kids had kids young? How long has the kids been gone. When you don't have a hobby outside the house, it make you what you do. I play video games, I can't do that and talk, so I would say she she get out of a cubicle and make bank opening a in home daycare with those skills. LOL

I think I tend to look at procrastonation as waiting for a better time. I am one of the few people I know who makes time for any one and that is not procrastonation, that is prioritising.

For me my duality is my intuiton vs my emotion. I get the two confused, esspecially at certains times of the month. I am the year of the goat as well which I find that I don't think I am stubborn until I look back. I recently read that my attention is very outword, that I am blind folded if I take my own intuition and turn it inward. I find that to be so true. I can help alot of people with perspective, but I am unable to see anything to do with my futue plans. I have ideas, and dreams and hopes, and feel they are as far now as years ago. The card have been saying good things and so do the stars for my 2010. So Last year I went back to school at 30 and changed my BA from Social Sciences to a teaching degree in Science. My choice was based on a financial descion to get more financing, and I think about my husbands money like an investor his prized commotity. I think we are kind and willing, but when your pushy, we get rude.

That crosses all weeks to my experience. I am blessed with two wk ones and one wk two, and I am wk three with a step sister and a step daughter born in my week. Boy do we butt heads.

I think your depression is the problem. Your not obsessed, you are just lonely. I bet your not expect any one else to ring. I get most of my emotional support from this site, my dog, and my kids in that order. My kids are young, and you not mentioning children, plus the time span I would guess you live alone? I think you should right every last obsessive, grievious, negative thing you can, and burn it. Symbolically releasing yourself from them. Repeat when you cant sleep, and look for other means of mental occupation. If you can join a gym, no matter what your shape you will feel better about yourself every time you do a class, or workout. Go to the library and sit around other people, get on one of their computers, read what the schedual looks like. Go for a walk around your neighborhood, if it is safe.

You never know who you will meet if your out about. Books stimulate all sorts of imagination.

I totally judge my books by the cover, actually the binding.

I recently read a trilogy that is not advertised, but I found very entertaining, simular to Harry, but way more intellectual. Sean Russell One Kingdom, The Dark Roads, was the last. Get out of your head while and into someone elses.

Even more, try not giving him your attention, get some books or books on tapes. Stay preoccupied and see how he reacts to you not being needy. The last book I read to help woman understand men in general, is men need woman who don't need them.

They are looking for an asset, not a bill. I hope this makes scense.

Mine has kept me, he was raising a 8 year old alone, I was pregnant.

Perfect co dependency. He didn't feel bad using me, he justified with I was using him.

Now he cant look me in the eye or have a serious conversation about anything.

I am being told that my progress intelectually, and desire to get a degree online (which I have started) and taking control of my finances is making me more substancial than him, and I have to be gentel. LOL Muhahahah

Firstly, I wouldn't start putting any words in his mouth. I would stick with his word, sober is most clear, and drunk is exagerated; my observations only. So sober he wants his cake and eat it too. I am 30 married for 3 years and with my husband since 19. He said the same things then to me yours is saying. I'll fish when I want and this and that, in reality, yes, and I didn't stop him; I helped. I have bent over backwards proving somthing he's known all along, I care. Mean while he has kept his word, done what ever he wanted and prevented alot of progress for me.

Find someone who says, and means what you need to hear. Don't guess by the cards or the stars, the potential is there, only if he chooses that.

I am a gemini and i have a scorpio husband of three years but have been with him since i was 19 im 29. I have had to deal with lonliness too. It is so hard. I find myself surrounded with needy

people who ilet in just to have someone to talk to. I know how tempting this guy may seem, but his intentions aren't pure. I belive if a man would chase a happily married woman, no matter how nonchalante he may go about it hes a home wrecker. He is playing out his fantacy secure of any obligation or commitment. You are making yourself not only vulnerable to attacking your self with the delima but imagine how awkward your husband will feel when he senses the difference in your behavior to him. If you feel innappropiate then you are probably behaving inappropriate. Prayer and meditation. The type that doesn't dwell on what is wrong with your

current situation, but the grace of having a chance to change it before it is out of control and you don't have either.

I am new and have alot of time. I hope to be helpful and get to learn some new things add new perspective. I am looking forward to participating regularly.

Maybe just surface friends due to the reminder of failure. Women want forever, i think , then again i have to remind myself not to judge everyone by my behavior, just because your capable of putting that aside doesnt mean she is as comfortable.

Hello i am a gemini, proudly the week of the seeker and i have a grand mother and sister who are may 25 and even step kids June 10 is a son I raised since 8 who graduates. I say we are twins because we want to goof off and enjoy life and give and then we see ppl are mean and take and dont care or return the love and we flip on them and throw all their faults in their face to defend our hurt of their taking advantage. That sum my last 10 years up lol.

Seriously i have an awsome advantage with a personology book published by readersdigest.

All the weeks of gemini are way different. The first week is cunning and manipulative, out of need often more than spite. My sister and grandmother are born on the same day the year of the dragon. I help both often and get more stuff stired in my sibling life< i have too many esspecially since im older and my mom moved away> It can feel very stressed. My son is the second week, very laid back we never had any problem until i needed him to do something he didn't want to do and then it was on. I am third week, and i love to learn and i love so much about life i love to travel and i am an emotion basket case and cannot help it. Most of my attitude that is aggressive is to protect my self from getting hurt and i have yet to meet any one in the fourth week. I think that all this is really only a fraction of anyone no matter how iroic. I have met a few week of the seekers and we don't really get along. It seems each seek his or her own thing and I have strayed from the social desires ive seen in my fellow third weekers. I had issues with being were the action is when I was younger and now I just want to raise my boys and find my calling to life being with a man who prefers me to work at home. I think I know quite abit about geminis and I could offer good well thought out opionions or share from my book.