How is this making you feel? Have you asked yourself this very important question yet? When you think about him, what does your stomach feel like? This should give you the answer you need.

I dated a Capricorn with a Capricorn moon, Venus in Sag. I have my moon in Cancer, so a lot of your story hits me in a very personal place. I found in that relationship that it was best not to pursue him. Giving him his space was important, because the more I pursued him, the less he wanted to be with me. I think this is good advice overall. I think too, however, that if you have not been sexually active with him, it would be a good idea to hold off until you have YOUR emotional needs met (i.e. an exclusive relationship). The last thing in the world you need is to have that kind of emotional bondage/baggage dragging you down.

It's so hard to read these things for yourself. What I see in it is that you both are rather disconnected emotionally. You sense it on a deep emotional level, and he's somewhat controlling. My guess is that you get what you give in this situation and that if you desire emotional openness, you have to give it. Maybe first.