Pre70... Ya, i don't know? You are letting him have his cake and eat it too... If he doesn't want to Love his wife, And he cheats on her with you.... Why stay with her and live a lie (stay together for the children) isn't always the right thing to do. And you don't feel bad being the "other woman"? And even if you did end up being with him, What makes you think he wouldn't do the same thing to you later when the "sneaking around fun" is gone? Cause if you meet a, "Married Man" and he willing to see you on the side.... What does that tell you about his morals and how he can't keep his wedding vow's. To me he would be a Jerk! And i would be turned off. Emagine it was you he was cheating on? Don't you want to be able to trust your man. When he goes out you can know for sure he's staying faithful to you, not sitting and wondering if he's giving the "waitress, girl next door" his number when your not looking. ( I'm just sayiong) It says a lot about a person who CHEATS on their spouse, and knowing he's married... and you still talked to him, Thats a home wrecker. If you didn't know he was married then shame on him. Best of luck to you.
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RE: What happend to my life?
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Thank you.. And i know it will all work out. I was jusst wondering "why"? Like what happend? Am i that hard of a person to get along with? I tried so hard and lost twice. I do love my boys to death and am very happy i have them. I've been single now 2 n a half years... And i do like it. I just want the Happy family...house, dog, yard, vacations, bbq's with friends, ya know?
What happend to my life?
I had it all, married my best friend n had our son... one night out with his firends he got busted and took the rap and did 4 years! I was a wreck... took a few years, moved in with my mom and then met some one new. He had gone through a bad relationship too.. 1yr later we have our own place and i have my second son. My Ex husband hears about it, and tells me it's okay... I still Love you, you did what you had to do and i left you out there so i don't blame you. And wanted me to be with him when he got out. I didn't know how to feel? I do love him, i never stopped loving him, he got taken from me. Well when my youngest turned 1yr old.. I found out his dad was cheating on me, so i left. And waited 2 years for my ex husband, writing all the time visiting him, i couldn't be happier! The weekend he got released we had a family welcome home party at his mothers (who was my best friend) We have been together since 1998. I'm close with the family, closer than i am with my own! Well after a wonderful weekend he calls me while i'm at work and tells me he doesn't think we should be together.. He Loves me and always will, but doesn't want to get back together... I couldn't breathe.. i didn't go into work the following day. I don't know how to deal with this... His mother and i had our whole wedding planned out, Everything. I was so looking forward to having my family back, then i lost it in a blink of an eye. Then 2 months later... i lost my job. now i'm back at my mothers house 2 kids, don't talk to either of my kids dad, i get no child support. And i'm 32. How do i stay positive? Will i end up alone forever, how will i find some one with 2 kids, mom figure, and living with my mom! Am i suppose to live my life alone and just raise my boys the best i can... Was this a life lesson? Or am i being punished for some thing i did? I am a good person, and i'm always the one getting hurt in the end. Thanks for reading this, i needed to vent.