Hey I believe, I didnt read all the posts but I wanted to give you my 2 cents on the topic of boundries...you said something about having to know what your own needs are and so on..just remember that your needs can change so please dont become so rigid and set on one idea that you miss out on the fluidity of how our hearts and minds change with certain people and where we are at in that moment. Sometimes our needs are met and we simply dont need them anymore. Just some food for thought. Boundries are a tricky one at least they have been for me too. Knowing what your limits are and oh how others can push them and manipulate them to get what they want, can be very frustrating. Just try to be balanced in your giving and recieving. Thats the best I can tell you. And forgiveness does have to start with yourself. You cant forgive others until you have begun to forgive yourself. Hugs to you for being so aware and honest with yourself it takes courage. ( :

Hi captain, sorry I havent had a chance to respond to your reading for me. You are right on with all you said. Simply amazing! Yes I am guilty of overgiving with those I care about. I dont mean to make people feel smothered. I know it comes from a fear of losing people I love and I truly want people to know how I feel about them and Im a person that likes to take action, to show it not just say it. Unfortunantly this has led to undesireable results and my worst fears had come true. I have been trying to teach myself to follow other peoples ques and not overstep any boundries. Its hard to sometimes when I feel so much compassion and love and simply want to share it. I have decided to going back to taking time on my own and doing the things that make me happy. I tried to reach out to someone I overstepped recently and was completly ignored so Im trying to heal from that as well. I loved this person with all my heart and felt he was the most compatible for me but he does not want me in his life that could not be any more clear now. So I will not contact him ever again. I am going to quit focusing on th elove life for now and focus on myself and those that are already available to me. Trying to find a balance here. I also get that my insecurities has prevented me from being able to see it at the times people were showing me love...lots of work to do. Thank you for your support. ( :

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HI Captain I had you do a reading on a boyfriend that did not work out...anyways I would like you to read my photo and tell me if you see anyone coming in the near future that may be a better match. I kind of feel like giving up. Relationships have been a big challenge. Let me know what you think....or really anything that you may feel. Thanks.

ScorpVirgo. Men are like busses when you miss one you can always catch another. Im not trying to be dismisive of your hurt feelings but you know that the right guy comes at the right time when you least expect it. Take things slower in the future. Moving too fast is an indication that you have a lack of clear boundries and havent quite figured out what you need to be in a healthy relationship. It takes time and you have to deal with some dissapointment before you get there. Until that day enjoy the ride for what its worth....I have been where you are at and you need some time to heal and move on from the guy that hurt you.Most people looking for love have to go through this. It will get better. Do something good for yourself. ( :

Hey serious7. Even though I did not recieve a reading I appreciate that you used your time and energy to help others a you did. the bottom line is you do not owe any of us anything. You are correct for stating that we should put our focus towards God and Jesus for true healing and guidance. While I beleive God uses people to do his work, I also know that it is up to us to accept and listen to what he is always trying to tell us. Thanks for being a voice for those who needed to Hear. God Bless You.

Hello Serious 7 I would love a reading from you. Thanks. ( :

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Oh also Im not sure if this helps but i had this dream while sleeping next to my son in his bed I fell asleep while getting him to sleep. Hes a little boy 7 years old. been having troubled thoughts about him...does this dream reperesent how he feels about his world perhaps?

I am a vivid dreamer. Some times these dreams are extremely frightening and confusing. This one I just woke up from several minutes ago and feel very dizzy and lightheaded...I was in my bedroom I went to pull the chain on the ceiling fan and the whole thing got pulled out of the ceiling and out of it came strands and strands of lights different ones, none lit. In that time my best friend in real life entered and noticed the chaos. There were other things happening, the walls were not like the wall in my room they were a reddish brown color wood and it was like they were breathing. there was something else that had to do with electricity, I noticed the electrical outlets. I was sitting in disbelief with my head down and had something covering my head like a large scarf (not really sure) the walls started to shake and everything was almost in a spinning motion. I felt dizzy, weak, afraid, tired. Also something was working without being plugged in and my friend and I gasped in horror. It was like a weird energy like a polterguist had taken complete control of the room. I have had several dreams about lights but none seem to have a very good connotation. Last week a dream about many many hanging lights in the basement and I walked around turning off the ones that were lit. I think last night I had a light bulb in my hand. What the heck is going on..something is trying to get my attention but what? Why is it getting so frightening. When I woke up I still flt dizzy and quite lethargic...Also thought I was completly awake when this was happening. Very scary real feeling. Please help....