Hello leoscorpion, or anyone else that can help, I'm have a question for you because I saw that you were a leo? And married to a cap? I am a capricorn and dating...was dating a Leo. He recently broke up with me after 2 and a half years. He said he needed his space and time to be alone. We got into a small argument and he really took it hard. It was our usual argument about not putting enough time aside for me (we were in a long distance relationship because I go to college 2 and a half hours away). I had come home for summer and had barely seen him (he was working a lot). He wanted to go to a friends all day but I wanted to see him. I went to see him the next day and it was miserable silence for a good while. Finally we started talking and he just seemed as though he was depressed for really no reason at all. He said it wasn't me but couldn't give me an answer. I told him how much he meant to me and how I wanted to help. After a while he said we should take a break which came as such a shock to me. How could he want a break after less then a week ago he was telling me how much he loved me, couldn't wait to see me and still planning out our engagement?
When he asked for a break I got extremely upset, I felt totally rejected and like any woman, thought it was my fault. Basically after I left I texted him a few times for 2 days and stopped by another time. 2 weeks ago he said I was still coming on too strong and that he needs time to fix his head now that it was so buried. He "needed this time" and "it's over". I never got a chance to have my say in his decision. We started no contact and it's been almost 2 weeks. I'm thinking about ending no contact at the end of this week.
Another factor into this is that he owes me money for something I bought him a while ago. I need it now to make payments for school. There's a deadline I need to meet in a week and a half and I think this might have been another reason he's so upset. He hates his job but needs it in order to pay me back. Before I bought him it he even said he hates to owe people money but that he knew he could pay me back. Is he just feeling the pressure because there's now a deadline to pay me? I hope this is really the reason for this break and not our relationship.
I feel like there's a strong possibility we'll get back together but I don't know how to go about this situation. I was hoping since you're in a relationship with the same signs I could get some insight into your dynamic. Thanks.