Oh, and thank you for taking the time out of your Christmas holiday to respond to my posts above. I wish the best for you and your family.

That is true. I won't say I 'enjoy' him depending on me. I guess I'm just so used to it. Us having almost opposite personalities, we always seemed to grow up doing everything together (We really balance each other out. He calms me down when I over react in a situation or get mad, and I'm the stubborn confrontational one when someone is trying to take advantage of him(In the situations he doesn't want to disappoint anyone who's around him). We're almost opposites, but we get along really well, and have a lot of the same tastes and interests. I haven't ever admitted it to him, I'm not even sure if he realizes it or not, but he's not just a brother to me, he's my best friend (No matter how many people call me their best friend, and even if I'm not my brothers best friend, I do see him as MY best friend). I've encouraged him numerous times to go out on his own into the unknown (To new towns/states/places he's never been before) I've always been to type to go out into the unknown and grow from it, and he does talk about wanting to go out into the unknown, he just doesn't want to do it alone. And it's not that I'm trying to send him off into the unknown to get rid of him, or that I'm trying to get him out of my life; I would just rather him go out and grow as a person and take everything life has to offer him. I'd give up my seeing him nearly everyday just to have him happy and evolving as a person. Life has so much more to offer than one location.

Do you think encouraging him to go out into the unknown world (Towns/Places he's never been before) on his own will be a good idea to help him become more independent?

July 9

I didn't include his relationship problem he's had lately in the above post. But he's dated a few girls in the last two year, which haven't lasted with any success. He doesn't admit it, but I can tell each time a relationship doesn't last, he's a little broken up about it. I was wondering if his chart will tell whether or not he will find that special girl for him in the near future, or when/where/how he may meet this girl, or what she will be life, what sign she may fall under, what her appearance would be, what her name would be. I know a chart may not tell all these things, and that it's not a good idea to try to control love and destiny, but if there was any way to see the destiny in his future on any of this, it would really help a lot. I can't stand seeing my brother like this. You can probably tell I'm getting a little worked up over this, I'm a little upset over it I guess.

Any reading you can provide would really mean a lot.

Best wishes for your holiday season.

• LC

In the town we grew up in, my brother had a hand full of friends (Which were not kind to him at all), after he was done with his early years of school, he went on to college and went to a different town where he found friends that are so much better than the few he had back in our home town. Friends that don't get intoxicated, spend time with my brother socially(Opposed to just when they want something from him), and are there for him emotionally and physically. His new friends even have their lives on track for the future. My brother really seems to look up to his new friends (They're his age, but he does look up to them to a curtain extent). His old friends barely even answered his phone calls unless they where 'bored' (As they put it, they never put their plans on hold for him, but they always expected my brother to put his life on hold for them) His new friends aren't like that at all with him. But any time he's in our old town, he always seems to go back to his old friends (He only goes back to our old town about two or three times a year, but every time he does come back, he seems to end up hanging out with the old friends, even when he says he's going to avoid them) He does tend to have a problem with standing up to people, or dealing with conflict (I'm usually the opposite of him, so I always take up for him when things like this happen, his new friends have a lot of the same temperament and personality traits as I do, and they look out for him the same way I do) My brother has over come so much in his early life, and is doing so well with his new life he's created after graduation, why does he keep doing this to himself? Why won't he stand up to his old friends when they do wrong toward him? He doesn't deserve the things he puts himself through with his old friends. I don't know if he's afraid of being alone or what, but no matter what he says he just always ends up taking steps backwards when he goes to our old town. (His birthday is 7-9-91) Please help people with this. He doesn't deserve to put himself through this, and I can't stand to see him always being upset when he's in our old town (For personal reasons, he kind of has to go to our old town every now and then, but he doesn't have a reason to spend time with people who don't treat him right, no one deserves that) Is there any reason my brother puts himself through this that you're able to see through his birth chart? I really don't know what to do anymore about this.

Is there any way to know what sign placement with will fall under, or anything else about her appearance? Like if her hair color will be died or natural and hints like that? Or of when he may meet her in his life time? (Or where) I know I should not mingle in on this, but I have been pondering this for a while, and it's always nice to get answers to questions when possible.

Hope you have a very Merry Christmas!

My brother (Born on 7/9/1991) has come so far in his life, and has done so well. BUT he hasn't found the right girl for him yet. He's dated a few girls in the last couple years, but nothing that has seemed to last. He doesn't usually admit it, but I know he really wants to find that special someone. I'm wondering if anyone can see love in his near future, and what his best matches would be, or what she would be like? I'm really wanting to help him find the right girl for him (Secretly of course!). Can anyone please help me with this?