So did everyone go on vacation at the same time? LOL

Just pray and ask God for forgiveness. Then you must forgive her. You will be okay. You have so much potential and you will do great things this year.

You know what, I just text my Gemini this past weekend and simply said: "I love you." Then I backed away and said nothing else. A few hours later he text me back asking how I was doing? So my point is just be honest and up front, then back away.

Do this and let me know what he says. Just simply say " I love you, (name)" Just text him and see what happens. Trust me it works. But only do it if you truly feel this way. Like I said earlier, Geminis can sniff fakeness.

By the way, after I started practicing Yoga and meditation my life is becoming a whole lot better. I am in such a better state spiritually and emotionally. I have learned patience and understanding. Maybe you should start doing those things and see how it goes.

WOW! WHEN IS YOUR BIRTHDAY? MINE IS ON DEC. 6TH. I'M FEELING TO SAME WAY!!!

Every normal thing in my life has changed. I have been looking at astrology and it says Pluto has moved out of Sag. It was in Sag for 12 years. It moved out of Sag in 2008. So ALL Sag are feeling this way. I have a friend that his wife just came out of no where and told him she want a divorce and the kids! He is devastated. His B-day is Dec. 12.

I quit my job (very good job) and moved because my life was becoming so stagnant in florida. I moved back home to Atlanta and I was going through depressive episodes too! I have never been depressed in my life until this year. I just thought it was because I turned 25.

When is your birthday?

Hi DragonFly,

I am in the same situation. I am a Sag with a scorpio rising, capricorn moon.

My situation sounds exactly like yours. I had a really nasty argument with my gemini friend back in early May. We didn't talk for the rest of the month. I finally contacted him for his birthday June 5th and ever since then we've only spoken briefly on the phone whenever I called him.

We were never in a relationship, but we were very close like a relationship. He was my best friend. I feel like I messed everything up, because things are not like they use to be.

The only thing I can tell you is to pray everyday and meditate on all the good qualities of your gemini. Ask the universe to allow him back into your life with lots of love.

This month, I've only talked to him once and I told myself that I'm not going to keep making the first move to call. I'm gonna wait and see if he will call. If not, then I may call next month to check in with him if I feel like it.

Geminis are very sensitive and they can spot someone being fake. So if you are really in love with him, just tell him and then you back away for a while. Let him come to you.

Good Luck.

Hey, Anni!

Sorry, I've been on a mental vacation. Im a Sag with a Scorpio rising and sometimes I go into hiding to sort out my emotions.

Karma, Please don't wait on this man. If he calls or don't call, if he shows up or don't show up, IT'S ON HIM. This guy has a messed up character if he is saying he is gonna come or call and he doesn't. Please realize that the world doesn't revolve around him, and you probably need to tell him that too!

Ladies please, don't make you whole world about these men who cannot keep their word. The first time he doesn't keep his word and doesn't call when he say he would, should tell you how the rest of the relationship might go.

Karma I suggest you tell him and text him the exact time and location of your dance, then leave it alone. If he shows up good, he is a keeper, if not then kick him to the curb.

Please don't set yourself up for disappointment

The book is called "why men love b i t c h e s"

Yes, girl! You gave up the cookie!

Girl, that man should have been catering to you, and cleaning your house! Never, Never give up your friends for No Man. He got with you because he loved your independence, and when he broke that barrier, he left like a thief in the night! Forget that Buster!!!

Read this book:

WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES BY SHERRY ARGOV