thanks to all of you that have helped and im going to think really hard about what im going to do this is such a big decision...but thanks i appreciate it a lot

omg thankyou so much olstoro i really like cwhat you think thanks it really helped.

hmmmmm thats difficult but i see what your trying to say and i think that if your really ment for eachother youll end up together...but for the time being just let him loose let him live his life and you live yours, youll meet new ppl (men) and in the end when he has grown up if your still single then you kno..theres where you wanted to be all along. i hope this helps atleast a little idk in what other way to explain it

okay yes i understand where your coming from and thankyou so much you really helped but you see he would be in my doorstep if he could but hes still underage and living with his mom, and i kno this must sound crazy but thats how it is and after all i kno he loves me evn if its not shown in this way..he said hes been in love with me since weve been in grade school which is insane since i never talked to him then and i kno he is still in love with me he does all he can to see me and drives all that way just to see me against what his mother says and letting him go would be my very last last last option..i hope you understand

alright well i just need some opinions and advice about my realtionship.....ok well me and my nf have been together for almost 8 months and i gotta say were perfect for eachother in every way theres just one BIG problem...we live about 300 miles away. We love eachother and we both no we cant live without eachother and we plan on getting married, there is just one timy thing that bothers me and its not that big and i can understand what hes going thru from his past and what hes told me. His problem is that he is one of those men that get really really jealous and i mean he trusts me he just goes crazy sometimes. he gets in his moods and we just start arguing untill it get to the point where hes trying to break up with me and were on the phone and im crying my eyes out and we both cant take anymore of it we both hate it and its not like hes really breaking up with me he says he doesnt kno why he does that and he apologizes and a couple nights ago he had told me when we were on the phone and we had been arguing probably for about half an hour he told me that id he had a gun he would shoot himself that moment and seriously i dont even kno what to do anymore and i kno he doesnt kno either. We kno the tension comes from being so far away and i wish there was something we could do about it.....so any ideas? please.. anything will help..