Male Gemini here. From what I've read on these forums in my short time here, I'm starting to believe that I'm an anomoly. I met a Virgo lady 2 years ago, she's a single mom with a beautiful daughter. We struck up an instant friendship, so fast in fact that I kept thinking I knew her and her daughter from somewhere. A year into the friendship she pulls away from me and goes from talking to me everyday at work to somedays not even saying hi. I let it go on for a few months and confront her on it, she says she's just stressed out and she "loves me." I spent the next 6 months trying to get her to talk to me more often, like she used to. This was too much for her partner apparently because she got jealous and started thinking that I was stealing her girlfriend. I went 3 weeks waiting for a call that finally came the other day. She said she's not giving up on me and wants to go to a haunted house this weekend. The moral of the story from this gemini's view is this... When I love someone it's forever. No matter what ever happens I will never quit trying to be this girl's best friend. As a side note, yes I am completely and hopelessly in love with this girl. But she swore off guys before I met her due to being treated very badly by every guy she ever knew. I can't see how any guy could hurt this girl and her kid, I'll never understand that. But I love her so much I will settle for just hearing her voice once a month. So leogrrl I hope that gives you some insight into a gemini's thought processes. If he really loves you he's waiting for your call. Unless you've done or said something to make him think you don't care, in that case he probably thinks he's giving you your space. That's how I am, if you make me think you don't want me around I'll disappear. If you show me you do care you'll never get rid of me.
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RE: Leo female, gemini male...should I just get over it!?
Male gemini, female virgo confused friendship advice
Ok so i met a girl at work 2 years ago and I instantly felt that I knew her from somewhere. Maybe in a past life or something I don't know. I'm not usually a people person, and don't get to know many people but there was something about her. It was clear to me from the beginning that she was gay and in a relationship. C was a single mom with a beautiful little 3 year old daughter, unfortunately C was abandoned by the father and from what I could learn she was pretty much just dissapointed with every straight guy she ever met. We got to know each other pretty well and one day she says she loves me, I knew this meant just as friends, and I completely felt the same way. I made it very clear that I love her and always will. She tells me that she and her girlfriend have no friends so I try to be the best friend to both of them. This works up until just recently when her girlfriend gets jealous over me wanting copies of pictures she took of all of us hangin out together. There was a big fight between them which I heard over the phone where the girlfriend N said she "didn't want to get a joint checking account with C because she didn't know, after 3 years of dating, if she wanted to spend her life with C." I knew from the first month of knowing C that i wanted to be her friend forever. I tell her that i love her and would do anything to make her happy even walk away if she wants. I also learn in this call that C has a best friend already who has helped her through this. Why would she tell me she doesn't have any friends when she has a best friend? 3 weeks pass and she calls and says she isn't giving up on me and wants us all to go out next weekend to haunted houses. I told her i would love to go and i really want to but i feel like she lied to me and doesn't even consider it worth an apology by not addressing it. It seems like one long series of her making me want to get closer but then pulling back when I do. Are all virgos this way?