Who says that you have to be exactly how people portray your Zodiac sign? It's a general look, that's it. You've had hard times in your life, things that have been stolen (or have been given away). Honesty, Integrity, Prinicles, etc. and havng an obession over them IS NOT a bad thing. You're right, though, rarely do you cross someone who has these traits. The world we live in is messed up. How do you return? Forgive. You have to make the decision to forgive those who hurt you. That does not mean that you cannot hurt, or be mad at them. Step-by-step, not day-by-day. Hate the sin, love the sinner.