Posts made by lostascanbe
Back years ago I was friends with JLD and thats all we could be because I was in a relationship. We haven't spoken in years but recently he asked if I would like to go out with him. To avoid my embarrassment I am trying to figure out if he has asked me out as a friend or if he is thinking about getting more involved?
I've been thinking about him a lot over the last month and I did think about him on and off for years in some form. We were always close and had a great time together as friends. We seem to be a lot a like so now I am just wondering if he is my future? See the next time I fall I want it to be forever! There is an age difference between us but rationality has shut that off with the intuition of what's a few years between people that could be so good together!
So help me out any romance coming my way with him? If so when?
He's a Virgo and I am a Scorpio
what my ex thought about the conversation we had the other day concerning our son? I wondered if he wanted to sit in the car with me? What was going thru his brain when he seen me?
I also sent him a follow up email a day later and am wondering if he will take what I told him to heart or if he will just ignore the fact that I am trying to help him?
RE: I have to wonder
I'm ready to move forward but when I see him or talk to him I am overwhelmed by memories. He smiles and when I see that I remember happy things but I also have to remember what has been done. I'm a different person then what I was then and I think if we were together now things would be entirely different. I see how far we could go if we were together again. It would be hard to go forward from here if we did but I always thought we could make it thru anything. I see that light in in his eyes and I can only think what if?
I see me progressing far in my life and I guess I just sometimes hate he will not be there to enjoy the ride. He always said I could do anything I wanted, but I never believed him, I had to find out on my own and now that I have I hate the fact that we are not going to enjoy it together. We could have had love, money & peace but....................................
I have to wonder
what my ex husband thought whenever he seen me this morning? What was going thru his mind? We were mostly talking about our son. I never invited him to sit in my car this am while we talked to keep warm but I have to wonder what he would have said if I would have asked.
Help! I don't think I'll ever truly
love my husband!
I don't know what to do! I would love to love this man he is so good to me but I just don't feel like I will ever be IN LOVE with him the way I should be!
I've even let him go at one time but I missed him. I thought maybe I did the wrong thing by letting him go but it seems like I feel the same way I did then.
I don't know if my heart is hard because of my last marriage or if my heart is in love with my x husband still. I don't know what seems to be blocking me from loving this man that deserves to be loved.
I don't want to hold onto him if I am unable to love him it is just not fair to him or the people around us!
Please tell me what to do! How do I fall IN LOVE with him, unharden my heart or forget my x? What can I do please help me! He deserves much more then what I am currently giving him!
Yes he's lazy as heck sometimes and not to mention a slob and these things drive me crazy but are those really the things that should push a relationship over the edge? I just don't know. My x used the excuse when he left that I had been "lazy" etc but I loved him with all my heart. I couldn't understand why he left, had to be more to it I thought. I just don't want to do to someone what was done to me. If you aren't in love with someone should you make an excuse to let them go, I just don't know!
Don't get me wrong I love my husband, I think, but where is the IN LOVE part & what do I have to do to get it?
The guy I just met
I met this guy a few weeks ago at my work his name is Eric birthday July 8th. His son had came in my store and he was bringing him back so he could claim a prize I had given him.
We started talking and I found out he was looking to place a client with a work buddy to do some job shadowing. I told him I would love to help.
So next thing I know he is now calling me and also added me to his profile. He is married but he is saying he really feels a connection with me. I've sworn off guys for now I think but there is something about him that interests me. We have a lot of things in common. He said he would love to be friends with me, doesn't wan to leave his wife but yet he is curious to why we have hit it off so well. I told him I would love to help him sort thru his confusion maybe it would help me understand why my husband left me. I just wonder however is there something more to this? Anything I need to keep my eyes open about? Will it lead to something more later on down the road? Will I be able to help him reconnect with his wife or will he wind up falling for me? I do not want to be the cause of someones falling. I'd love to help him but I don't want to like him even though I am kinda attracted to him in an odd weird way.
Any help greatly appreciated. I too am wondering why I would even consider being friends with a guy after all the junk I've been thru I have have to be crazy!
Thank you in advance!