RiverofGrass I too am a libra and I too kept getting involved with Cancers. I swore off them after the second failed emotional trainwreck of a relationship. I was engaged to the first one for two years and he played mind games and was evil and nasty to me, his favourite thing to say was I would rather go to work than be with you. He never really wanted to marry me, it was him just keeping me happy, and therefore keeping me around. The second one refused to commit and once again was extremely nasty. It may just be me, and I may ask for the treatment I got but I truely believe that Cancers and Libras is a recipe for disaster. Their moods are no good for us, you are always trying to balance out their moods by being over caring or extremly happy, while all the time you are sinking into despair. I know a great couple - Cancer and Virgo and they do so well together... I hope everything works out the way you want it, but dont let yourself get hurt...
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RE: Ok what is it with cancer men?
RE: Any libra woman trying to love a cap man?
I am a libra and am pursuing a cap guy. I didn't realise but I actually had been slowly falling in love with him for the last year. We began talking and hanging out as friends as I was seeing his mate. I finally got the courage to tell him only a month ago and things began to take off slowly. It is extremely hard to keep my cool - we see each other in public and I cannot show my feelings towards him as his friends are there, including the guy that I was seeing, and that fact, makes mr cap question whether or not I really do like him. Toledo51 I feel your pain and WiseLibra I understand what you are saying. I backed off from my cap - I told him what I felt, and then let him call the shots. My gut says it's going to be okay, my heart is screaming out for some affection and my mind wants to share everything with him. It is not an easy road, but I am learning patience, all about friendship and I have to say, it's nice to have an "old fashioned" relationship with the courting and most of all building trust between each other.
I could look at it that he doesn't like me or I could look at it as he is being carefull not to get hurt.
We as libras have the insight of balance, but caps -they like to work at things and make sure they are making the right decisions. I say, if you love your cap try to understand where he is coming from - because we have a better chance at understanding them, than they do of us...